Hey everyone lately it has been tough for me to accept and face the feelings of loneliness stemming from being single. I keep seeing romance all over social media and in public and it does bother me a little but after reading this one book about it, it made me realize how much I’m craving to have a romantic relationship and connection again. Being single hurts for me and it is hard for me to cope and live without it pulling me down lately. Does anyone wanna talk about it or just have advice?
#Being single hurts
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im so sorry, i know that feeling and it sucks so much. i hope you meet someone who is right for you
You just need to find the right one and who knows maybe the social medias did not last for that long in terms of romance
You'll find somebody trust me bro
thank you guys
no problem <3
I get this so much. It’s not just about wanting a relationship it’s craving that feeling of being seen and really connected. That doesn’t make you weak, it just means you’re human. While you’re single, it might help to fill your life with things and people that make you feel alive, too. The right person will come, but you don’t have to sit in it alone till then. Wanna talk about?
I am not sure if you ever have had a relationship before, but as a general piece of advice:
Don't throw yourself away over it.
The way I mean this is that too often people seek romance, but not their values. They end up in relationships where little or no room is available for them. Sometimes even losing theirselves in it.
By the end of day the most valuable person is you. So hold yourself high and love yourself.
Because another question is - how can you love someone, if you don't love yourself?
yeah I have many people who I hang out with nearly everyday which helps keep myself busy. I work on side projects, play sports, and go gym very consistently but sometimes it just gets tiring to go home feeling all alone again. I know my friends are there for me and I could reach out to them but the romantic relationship I crave is just never fulfilled