I'm not ready whatsoever, and I will be aborting it. My issue with this is just that this will be a decision that will stay on my mind for possibly the rest of my adult life. It isn't the 'quick fix' it seems now. I hate that I see it as such, because I know I could've been even more careful than I was already being. I'm scared of my boyfriend leaving me, and I'm overall just so scared for the procedure and the ||blood loss||. I'm frrrreaking out and have been since I found out yesterday, and I wish I could talk to my friends about this, but I cant since my boyfriend is communicating he would rather keep this just between us, and if I need to tell anyone my therapist.
#I'm 19 years old, and I found out I'm expecting a child.
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I'm not ready whatsoever, and I will be aborting it. My issue with this is just ...
how confidently do u want to abort it?
like from a scale of 1-10
10 being the most confident
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- I feel like I know I can't support a kid right now with my work hours & I'm starting uni in september, it would just be way too much and I'd be forced to drop out to take care of my child. I don't want that right now; on top of that I just think I'm too young to be a mom.
I think it's just the what if's going through my mind
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9. I feel like I know I can't support a kid right now with my work hours & I'm s...
does ur boyfriend want to abort it as confidentially as you?
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Yes
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thing is the symptoms im having are already pretty bad with me only being about a month along
im incredibly nauseous
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and there are stuff that help with young mums from unis im pretty sure, have you ever checked that?
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thing is the symptoms im having are already pretty bad with me only being about ...
i just dont want you to regret it, thats all
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but in all honesty abortion is my best option
just please make sure the idea has fully sunk in before
1 day is too short to make a decision like that in my opinion
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i just had not taken a test yet
i hope you and him are confident thats all im worried about 
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if it helps my case im more confident that i'll be able to live with my choice to abort than i am confident that i can raise a child without regretting having it
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Going thru it :,)
I went thru with the abortion but good god this huts
The crampsnare insane
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hope u feel better soon dude
really tough choice to make sorry u had to go through that shit
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I'm not ready whatsoever, and I will be aborting it. My issue with this is just ...
hey, i hope youre okay. your decision to abort was for the better and i hope you believe that. you are young and you are not ready for such a viscious shift in your life, and you agree you arent in a place where you could take care of an entire new life in the first place
hoping recovery is going okay, i do hear abortions are very painful
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yeah imm in somuch pain