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We need more threads like this 💯

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Yea 😭

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There should be a happy vent channel

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Yea

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Cuz thats mostly what ppl want to vent abt cuz u can happy vent to like anyone. Friends family randoms but i feel like you cant talk to as many ppl about sad stuff

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But i feel like a positive vent channel would be cool

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Yea

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I see

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Well im glad that changed for you

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Ofc

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Np

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For me I don’t think ive had a very sad life 🤷‍♂️ There’s like sad parts but I try to be grateful for everything

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For the most part ive had it pretty good in comparison to others

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Yea

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I agree

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Well, in someone elses eyes they could say ive had it rough at times but I try to keep a good mindset

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Like for example, maybe a year or two ago i hated my looks nd would get bullied and whatnot but I overcame it, started going to the gym and just working on myself. I just try to not let bad energy resonate with me

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Yea

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Thats why im very grateful for my dad, although at times he can be harsh he has taught me many important lessons

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Id say thats probably why i have that mindset

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Yea. I feel as though parents are either a good mentor or a bad warning. Either way you can learn from them, and you can always learn from yourself or just by chatting with others

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I see

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Thats a really good mindset

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In the past ive felt similar to that, maybe just not to that extent. For me, my parents have definitely messed up before but I had to realize that it comes from a place of hurt, and it’ll do no good to hold resentment. The reason they did the things they did was because of their own struggles

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Thats a good way to put it

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You really should be. It seems like you’ve come a really long way

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I see. I think that’s a really good thing, many people need to realize that their mindset can alter everything

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True

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I see

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So basically their circumstances have changed but they are stuck with the same mindset

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I see

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I try to come to peace with people but sometimes when someone has wronged me it lingers with me and I can’t always let it go

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I try to thougj

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Ok

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I kinda understand what you’re saying, like you have to come to terms with it first. You can’t just decide to forgive someone for the sake of forgiving someone

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I understand that

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It won’t fix anything to linger onto the past, especially when the person who wronged you has changed as a person

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I see

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That takes a lot of strength to forgive someone like that

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I aspire to have that amount of mental clarity

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Im tryna think of the right word lol

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I agree. For me, you can’t forgive someone and still recognize their wrongdoing. There’s a difference between forgiveness and completely ignoring their past faults

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Forgiving someone is like telling them that although they have wronged you, you accept what they did and will not hold that mistake against them, but that doesn’t mean you completely ignore their mistake

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True

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I agree. I think that forgiveness is an important step for everyone, no matter how they define it

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I see

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For me im in a spot where I know what I should do, all the cards are in my hand, and yet I don’t always play them right. I let emotions and whatnot interfere

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I see

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Yea

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Ig it just comes with time. You can’t expect to reach that level of mental clarity overnight

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It takes time

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I agree

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I appreciate that

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For the most part i see things pretty clear, I just need to learn that holding a grudge on someone doesn’t help. For I have also wronged others and have changed. Everyone can get better and you never know the reason why someone is the way they are

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In many instances the reason why someone acts in a poor manner is because someone has done the same to them

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I just have to recognize everyones struggle instead of taking their wrongdoing at face value

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I agree

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Have early bday

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*Happy

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I turned 15 recently, i feel like my worst years mentally was 12- a bit of 14

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Np

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Tyty

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I see. For me it’s been a year of character development and self improvement. Been a few ups and downs but overall has been very good

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I appreciate that

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I will 🙏

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For the most part its 14

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Fr

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Pretty good

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Im going into sophomore year, freshman year was pretty good. Wish my grades were a little better, just didn’t care enough but this year ill do well. I still had all A’s and B’s but i strive for better. But ive met many new friends and overall just had a good time

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Classes weren’t too difficult and not too easy

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No one giving me trouble rly, found some new friends

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Pretty good yr

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Ty

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😂

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Second yr of highschool

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It goes freshman, sophomore, junior, senior

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Np 😂

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Ikr

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Thats what i thought until i got to highschool

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I see. Strive to do good and you will

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Time goes by fast. Feels like a yr ago i was going into middle school

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Yea, im sure ill figure it out. My brothers chillin and hes 19 i think

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Either 19 or 20 but im pretty sure 19

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I can’t wait to be able to drive 😮‍💨

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I have two siblings. My older brother who is 4 years older than me and my older sister who is 6 years older

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I lowkey have zero clue on what I want to do with my life after highschool. Ik im going to college but im not sure what for and all that

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Yea, for me i just want a job that pays well, isn’t a desk job, and is good in my religions eyes

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But honestly if I could i’d do business, I don’t like the idea of working near my whole life to keep the lights on.

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Business you can do so much with. You can get money from real estate where you can work from anywhere and not have to constantly have to work, you can make a product of sorts and find success there, etc etc etc

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Yea

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Yea, for me I just don’t want to die a “normal” life. Many people die before they even really live. Most people find a normal job and are another cog in the system but for me there’s just so much more to life and you only get one life so why live a boring one where you work most your life away. The only reasons I see to have a normal job is #1 if you have a strong passion for something then I understand that and #2 trying to provide for your family because business is a risk

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It doesn’t even necessarily need to be business, i just don’t want a basic job

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True

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Sure hope so

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Yea

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I think about the future a lot. I can’t put my finger on what I want to do but i have sort of an idea ig

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Yea, sometimes i gotta think in the present a bit more tho

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Sometimes im so caught up on the future that it makes the present worse.

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Yea. For me sometimes I think about the future in a good way, but I think of it too much. I just need to live in the present moment more rather than looking forward to something that is very distant.

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Yea

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Yea

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😭

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In the end, life is life. It’ll all work out, im sure i’ll be fine. Just gotta take it as it is

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Yea it did. I appreciate it, I really enjoyed it. Some of my favorite conventions are deep ones and it’s not every day I get to have those conversations

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Ok, i’ll see you around. Have a good night. That’s another thing I gotta work on, getting a better sleep schedule

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