#All of my friends hate me, and it's all because of my Ex

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stuck canyon
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She keeps acting like the victim, begging me to play games, crying when I don't playing it off as if I never keep my promises or I never play with her or she never gets to have fun, or about how she'll never be happy again, and her life is ruined, and how it's all my fault, and I cheated on her(I didn't), saying how I'm "ditching her" every time we go to play games, and when I do actually get the chance, she refuses. And, of course, she's trying to manipulate me by threatening to c_t herself just because she can't accept the fact that I want to be JUST FRIENDS, and she can't accept the fact that I need affection, which she can't give me. She can't accept the fact that I don't love her, and she needs to stop being so dramatic and manipulative in my dms, trying to make me feel bad for her, and get back with her. I've almost blocked her several times, she's just causing unneeded stress, and I don't like the fact that I have to be careful what I say to her, else she's going to go down sympathy street, looking for it where she's not going to get it. And then she went and played it off like I didn't care about her problems and was just brushing her off as unimportant. She is wrong, she was still important, and I was busy, but now I don't even talk to her, she just made assumptions and said I look down on everyone else except my gf. I wasn't trying to be disrespectful, or rude, to anyone. I have too many feelings I can't properly release, and then I got agitated from a bot in the server, left, overreacted. Then everyone from the server blocked me, except a couple who saw where I was going with my explanation. I've completely cut her off, just unneeded stress breaking the surface tension holding all the problems I already had, making me snap.

Note: I hope I fixed it, but the bot blocked my post, I'm not sure why I didn't see anything wrong with it, but I did change a bit to make it not go crazy, if there is/was something wrong with it, I'd appreciate a mod tell me why.

quasi yacht
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for someone who kept crossing boundaries, stepping away was the healthiest thing you could do. It’s not on you to carry the weight of someone else’s emotions, especially when they use guilt, blame, and manipulation to hold on. You tried to be there, to be kind, to keep things respectful BUT it became one-sided. Wanting peace, space, and clarity isn’t wrong. You started protecting yourself. And that’s something you shouldn’t feel guilty for.

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I wanna punch her just after reading this description of yours ,glad u left

stuck canyon
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:)))

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Thank you

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I didn't think anyone would read this, I needed it

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And it's funny, she lives in New Zealand, 8k miles away from me, and we dated for 6 months, i don't know what I was thinking smh

true path
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@stuck canyon

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Wish to dm me pls so I can help

stuck canyon
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I'm fine now