I like 5 guys and it’s hard for me to choose one to be my boyfriend.
Can someone give me advice on what I should do?
Thank you.
#I like too many guys. I don’t know what to do.
fathom osprey
sweet dew
I like 5 guys and it’s hard for me to choose one to be my boyfriend.
Can someon...
Hmmmm
Why don't u go on a date with em
Each weekend
5 guys- 5 weeks then call the one whom u liked
fathom osprey
The thing is one guy I met has pushed me to meet in person and I’m not ready to meet him in person
I met him on a dating app
sweet dew
Oh
fathom osprey
Yeah
sweet dew
Why don't u try others
fathom osprey
My friend told me to meet him in person and she thinks I’m ridiculous for not meeting him in person
But I’m prioritizing my safety here
sweet dew
Ok look when it comes to choosing someone to be your boyfriend, it helps to get really clear on what you want in a relationship.
Ask yourself these questions:
Which one treats you with the most genuine respect and kindness?
Who makes you feel comfortable and like you can be yourself?
Who shares the same values or goals for a relationship?
Who has shown consistent effort, not just words?
Are you really attracted to them
?
Pick the one who feels right to you
And also remember u don't have to choose any of em if none feel right
fathom osprey
Thank you so much.
sweet dew
Welcome
fathom osprey
And maybe with time, it will help me to decide who’s right for me.
sweet dew
Exactly
fathom osprey
I feel good saying this to be honest. It’s been bothering me
sweet dew
Be honest about where you are at
sweet dew
But I’m prioritizing my safety here
Good keep it that way, ur comfortable is what matters
fathom osprey
And if the guy doesn’t get that, it’s his problem right
sweet dew
Trust ur instincts ❤️
fathom osprey
I’m allowed to have boundaries and any guy who meets me should respect this
sweet dew
And if the guy doesn’t get that, it’s his problem right
Yes but keep in mind not to lead anybody on, its good not to create unnecessary drama
sweet dew
I’m allowed to have boundaries and any guy who meets me should respect this
Exactly
sweet dew
That doesn't mean u missed ur chance gng
Ask yourself dis
Why did I push him away? Were you scared of getting hurt, feeling pressured, or just not interested???
Would I want to react differently next time??
What do I really want from someone asking me out?
If u figure out what pushed him away, u can be kinder to yourself next time
Maybe also be clearer w next person u meet
fathom osprey
That’s why I’m scared to date
fathom osprey
I feel like I won’t ever find someone
sweet dew
That’s why I’m scared to date
Then don't do it
sweet dew
I feel like I won’t ever find someone
You always will bro
fathom osprey
And that I’ll be on my own the rest of my life.
sweet dew
And that I’ll be on my own the rest of my life.
If u don't want to date don't date cause you feel lonely or sum
fathom osprey
My friends are engaged though
And some of them have kids now
And some of them are married now
sweet dew
Keep your self respect
sweet dew
My friends are engaged though
Girl if somebody doesn’t want to date, respect that ,no matter how much you like them. You can’t change someone’s mind if they’re not ready or simply don’t want to
There's nothing you can do about it
fathom osprey
Very true
sweet dew
It also def isn't reflection of ur worth
fathom osprey
I just feel like I don’t belong you know
sweet dew
Move on, focus on people who wants to do the same stuff as you
fathom osprey
Very true
sweet dew
I just feel like I don’t belong you know
You don't need to fit in anywhere
Find a person who likes you for who you are
Ik its such a heavy feeling but
You DO belong somewhere
fathom osprey
You think so?
sweet dew
Can I ask how old are you
sweet dew
I just feel like I don’t belong you know
Duh I'm just like you too , I felt this before but
Yk ik there's always someone there for me
Moving on is the best thing, we can't control people's choices
fathom osprey
Yes I do need to move on.
sweet dew
I'm so proud of myself I'm 18 and giving relationship advices after being in just one☠️😭🙏
fathom osprey
I’m 27 and I’ve never been in a relationship
sweet dew
Oooo
sweet dew
And tbh I don’t think I’ll ever be in one
U like 5 of those guys, just like I adviced u before, try it
sweet dew
I’m sorry I don’t mean to be miserable.
Actually not belonging somewhere ain't ur fault
fathom osprey
It’s because I’m not sure who I want in my life.
sweet dew
It’s because I’m not sure who I want in my life.
Scroll up and read the paras again.
..
😭
fathom osprey
It’s fine. I’m dumb anyway
viscid sedge
pick the one that comes for your body and stays for who you are
viscid sedge
pick the one that comes for your body and stays for who you are
that one is the best
sweet dew
pick the one that comes for your body and stays for who you are
That sounds so💀
Okay kinda misogynistic don't u think the first part
viscid sedge
like
no human being can tell who you are inside by just looking at you and having a conversarion
The first thing that makes someone give you a chance is apearence and atitude
if someone meets and goes for you by how you look even when you don't adjust to trends it means they apreciate your stile and natural beauty
give a chance tô the guy that finds you atrative even when you aren't set for a date
bu that is only surface level
after someone apreciates your style you must bee honest with them and they be honest with you
if after seeing each others true face, the defects, the farts, the crappy jokes
if after seeing each other truly you still like each other then that's the right person
always give a chance tô those who truly fight for you
and I don't mean the "I agree with everything you say" nice guy
a good guy knows tô criticize you when you ar being a jerk, tô face you head on when a decision is going tô have a bad outcome and you didn't notice it
viscid sedge
That sounds so💀
have I explained myself efectively?
cunning adder
Love Island ahh 😭✌️