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im not sure if this shouldve been put in relationship or mental health ig its a bit of both but something happened between me and my bf, i got mad bcs i found out hes been texting and calling his ''homegirl'' more than he has me, and shes my ex bestfriend and he knows that, and i got added into a gc of like 10 people all of my bfs friends (mostly female) and they were all arguing with me bcs they dk that me and him are dating and they think me and him are still exes and they all beefed me and argued with me saying why am i mad hes allowed to have female friends etc but what bothers me is that im not allowed to talk to make friends that ive known for longer than my bf and im not allowed to even have an opinion on this and this whole gc argument and the argument ive had with my bf caused me to throw up and im yet still getting blamed after an hour when it isnt even my fault, yes i was mad but my friend screenshoted my ex bestfriends story and the blame got put on me saying i had the problem but i didnt have a problem i was just mad but i apologised yet the blames been put on my by 10 people including my bf and my friend aswell whos fault it actually was and not mine and this whole thing is not only causing me to breathe really heavy, shake, cry, get dizzy, throw up, but im also soooo so tempted to hurt myself and idk what to do like the thing i wanna use is right infront of me on my laptop as im typing this and i cant do this anymore i just want to end everything i hate getting the blame for everything for my friends i hate it its never even my fault

radiant citrus
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so he can talk to whoever he likes but he wont allow u to talk to male friends? is that what ur telling me?

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also did u tell ur man ab the gc thing

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@worn harness

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radiant citrus
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right.

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im going to say something

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and i need you to fully hear me

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okay?

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your boyfriend doesn’t like you.

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the fact he’s stopping you from making friends with other guys but is talking to hella girls SCREAMS insecure male. its obvious he thinks hes the prize here, and it sounds like to me hes also egotistical and generally a piece of shit.

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he wants you to think he has options

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and if this man cared about you for a second he’d at least try and back you up, but no, he let you get ganged up on by 10 people in a groupchat. as a matter of fact, he took part in it himself.

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im actually begging you to wake the fuck up and break up with this guy PLEASE girl 5_pray

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i promise it does not matter how long you guys have been together, he let you, his GIRLFRIEND, get treated horribly by a bunch of his hgs. the man is clearly emotionally immature and not ready for a relationship at all.

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alright thank you im genuinly so done with everything like im js gonna leave him fuck him out of my life and anyone involved with him cuz i have my own struggles on top of him and he never helped me with anything

radiant citrus
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what really struck me about your message was the fact you used the word ‘allowed’. this stupid little teenage boy should not be ‘allowing’ you to do shit.

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he doesn’t fucking own you girl 😭

radiant citrus
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block his ass

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what a pos

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good for you

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@worn harness good for you for doing the right thing for real, i promise the right guy will come along. the bloke sounds like a piece of shit so i promise you’ve done yourself a huge favour here. stand tall girl

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inland tendon
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I aint even reading allat

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the part with group chat containing 10 ppl mostly girls was enough

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just break up immidealty