ummm My boyfriend just called it a day and broke up with me?

[inland talon]

If you imagine yourself ten years from now, still being in the same situation - taking care of your boyfriend who doesnt properly value it, pushing your needs down, him starting arguments and not listening to you and not giving you proper respect. Do you think such a future is worth having?

In some sense I was in a similar situation, I was holding onto my ex for such a long time that It ended only when my health stated to give out too much, only then i started to realize it has to change.

Its easy to get caught into that emotion and your brain just freezes, forgets everything bad that happends.

The point being is that helping people who refuse to be helped is damaging to yourself, and not productive for them in the first place either.

It doesnt help you or him in any way, but that can be really hard to see.

This takes time to sink in but if you reflect on it and on your values, you can start to see more beyond your emotional reactions that keep making you to just forgive and forget even when you should stop.

So this would be a very good place where to start, first focus on this

journaling can help, instead of just having too many ideas in your head and emotions

i think i should specify, i more so meant reflective writing, but if in general writing doesnt fit your situation right now and u dont feel that good about it then u could find other ways

trying is good, i dont see it as sad

it seems you have been in too much stress, you could be just burned out

this would definitely suggest that

thats understandable

i can see where you are coming from and definitely can feel how stressing it can be because parents tend to over-dramatize issues that are alredy difficult to deal with but, your situation got pretty serious and i think at some level your parents do deserve to know

thats horrible honestly

I mean its fine, its just that I dont really have all that much to respond with rather than just refer to what i alredy said

its just a horrible relationship you should have left honestly

Iam glad I could be of some help

Well good luck and hope u succed in improving yourself