#First time liking a guy after a year of being away from an abusive relationship
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We have been calling like everyday now, and he texts me goodmorning everyday...its honestly so new to me idk what to do with it
At first I thought it was nice
But our calls are mostly us just sitting there, there is rarely any actual conversation and I feel like I am second to his games
I'm a gamer myself, but I've always preferred talking with someone, gaming was just there to fill the void if that makes sense
I'm not really sure what to think
I don't want to enter a relationship just to get hurt again
And the other thing is that I'm very sensitive, and honestly need an emotionally mature guy but he's more of a jokester.....
I'm unsure if he will be able to give me the emotional security and reassurance that i need
But I do like him, and he's really cute
idk what to do
Honestly, ive never been in a relationship before so my advice/opinion can be invalid, but dont be scared to get in a new relationship. Its best to forgive and forget and just move on. If you hold on to that fear, it is unlikely that you will meet the love of your life. I can be wrong, of course. You need to be able to take risks, whether you go all in or protect your peace. Also, go with the flow and don't be too attached(?)