The problem I had to say is she is an extrovert. I got worried sometimes, and I did not know if she missed me. It's been a huge trauma for me ever since last week I had an argument with her and didn't know much abt it. I was hoping she could understand what I felt, but it's hard for me to stand up for her cause I'm, not in her league.
#Seeking advice for a long distance relationship
indigo pawn
lost meteor
I understand the highs and lows that come with a long distance relationship, trust me.
You say that you're not in her league, but let me ask you this: do you two truly love each other?
If you truly love her, and she says and shows that truly loves you, and you both treat each other right, then that puts you in her league and her in your league.
Another thing, if you have issues in a long distance that need to be discussed, then by all means go ahead and hash it out. If it's a problem that's really bothering you and you've tried to talk about it, but she doesn't seem to care or want to fix it, then it may be time to swallow the pill and break off the relationship. It may be hard to do, but it'll be in your best interest.
Let me know if that helps at all. 😊
indigo pawn
@lost meteor I truly appreciate your help. I realize that she doesn’t talk much and exhibits avoidant behaviour, which makes it even harder for me to fully grasp what she’s going through. I really empathize with her struggles, but there are times when I find myself forgetting what she’s experiencing, and that worries me deeply. Thank you for your patience as I navigate this situation.
empty blaze
The problem I had to say is she is an extrovert. I got worried sometimes, and I ...
Are you overthinking that she would talk to other dude and you wouldn't know because she is all the way on the other side of the world?