wild frost
Hey, there’s a situation that’s been stuck in my head.
On the night leading into Sunday, I had a one-night stand with an Australian woman who’s now flown back home. She’s two years older than me (I’m 21), and we agreed that we’d never see each other again.
She showed me how boring my ex-girlfriend actually was and gave me a completely different perspective on life—not just through the sex, but also through the conversations we had beforehand.
She had a strong sense of confidence and somehow guided me through the night.
My problem is that I can’t get her out of my head. I don’t want to text her since we agreed not to see each other again—or at least not yet. If I ever do reach out, I’d want to do it later, without referencing that night, after some time has passed.
She was an amazing person, and during the night she massaged me and touched me in a way that made me feel safe and cared for like no one else ever has.
I should mention that this was my first one-night stand and only my third sexual experience.
Does anyone have any idea how I can get her out of my head and stop missing someone who was never really “there” in the first place, if you know what I mean?