How long does it take to get over a breakup?

[modest axle]

I broke up with my gf 3 days ago, it has been hurting a lot since I still love her. I broke up because we had different values on certain topics, and she turned out to be very disrespectful and immature during our arguments

I want to know when things will get better, Ive been thinking about her the whole time. Especially when I think back to how things were at the beginning, and the plans we had for once we'd get married, it hurts a lot.

When will I stop crying myself to sleep every night? When will I stop waking up with a pain in my chest? When will I stop getting reminded of her all the time? When will I be able to do my hobbies again without thinking about her because I always told her about how much I loved certain things?
When will I fully accept that it's over by not thinking: "Im gonna tell her this! She would find this so funny" with everything that happens my thoughs go to telling her, but then I realise that it's over, those moments hurt the most.

[modest axle]

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[silk raptor]

well, it might hurt to go through a breakup because you love her so much, and you said you planned to marry her, right? well, i might give you advice that works to me to move on to my ex. Do a self improving to yourself like doing exercises and do go too much isolation because it will hurt a lot. You might go to your friends' hangout together and set your boundaries to her. Once you fully move on to her,you can tell her how you feel about that

[gusty jay]

hey this breakup is so fresh so please give it time ! it’s still an open wound and i know what hurts the most is not being able to tell her whatever is on your mind like you could in the past. this person wasn’t the one for u, and that’s always the hardest pill to swallow after a breakup. look, i say give it two weeks, you’ll realize how much more different you feel then. i promise you these are temporary feelings and things will feel less heavy soon enough. think about how things wouldn’t even have worked out in the end because of how different ur values and maturity levels were, u saved urself from more hurt and now the biggest reward u can give yourself is time to sit with the pain and grow from it :)

[modest axle]

its been over a week

it still hurts so much