#i can't tell if i like him or not

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rigid mirage
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i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and we ended on good terms. however, not having someone to tell me they love me like that romantically anymore made me spiral.
then, last week, my friend confessed he liked me. i told him i didn't like him like that because i still love my ex, but i've been thinking about my friend a lot the past week and just wanting to talk to him.

i just can't tell what i'm feeling because i tend to cling to those who show me the most care and attention, and i've felt something similar towards another friend who was there for me during an extremely hard time.
i just want some advice 😓

cinder quest
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Hey let me help you
I just broke up with my gf a week ago and I wasn’t feeling any good
Today she came back and insulted me
She was the only one who used to show me love and affection
I want you to know if you had to choose between him or your ex who would you choose
Because after all he was just a friend now he has a crush on you
And your ex might be feeling the same way about you and misses you

small nest
main cove
# rigid mirage i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and we ended on good terms. howev...

haii im in the exact same situtation with you. just broke up on good terms. I do feel that way too and truthfully to me its a matter of you used to having the attention and affection and now that you dont have that person anymore, youre in a state where you would tend to cling onto people who gives u that. to me it might be harmful to you and to the person.

nothing wrong with hanging out with ur friend and all but its best for now not to offer any romantical attachement to it. because as u said urself ur still in love with your ex and thats the number one point as to why u shouldnt be in a relationship for now.

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if you do get into one, ur feelings with ur ex would still linger and find urself thinking abt ur ex when ur with a new lover