bro like i was in love with this girl i’ve never met. we were talking for months on snap when she added me because she wanted to convince me to go for one of her friends. she lives an hour away from me and that’s basically long distance. anyway, she was perfect and just understood me and she seemed perfect to me like no other. my mom found out i was talking to her and made me block her to protect me from long distance. i guess she thinks that we’ll rarely see each other and constantly worry and she might cheat and i guess i kinda agree but she was just perfect. we’ve never met but i can’t get over her i wanna kms. i’m constantly thinking about her i want to stop i need help guys.
#a weird breakup
edgy lintel
lyric blaze
Did she ever give you any other way of contacting her other than on snap
wise wolf
well i’ll be honest, if u only really knew her online for a short period, u honestly can’t call that “love.” but it seems like u really connected with this girl so if anything, maybe u should reach out to her in the future and explain what happened. i’m not sure what ur situation is at home but im guessing ur mom supervises ur phone.
edgy lintel
yeah
i know it sounds stupid cus we never met
it prolly is
but i js want her to be happy
idk bro no one else made me feel like this before
wise wolf
u probably had great chemistry with her which is an awesome first feeling to experience
edgy lintel
but she came to my city and met her friends again and she was so close but i couldn’t contact her but she was so close
she was right there
i’ll js never be loved bro
she was special
wise wolf
okok wait don’t idealize her like thisss, its a bit unhealthy from the way ur describing it
but really, i don’t want to be a bad influence but if i were in ur shoes, id lowkey find a way to contact her again
somehow
if she truly does feel that special
edgy lintel
i don’t know if it’s obsession
or love
but we haven’t met again it feels stupid
but the main thing i wanna do is get over her because i won’t really see her too often and physical contact is a major part of relationships
wise wolf
how long did u talk to her for?
wise wolf
it’s sweet that u think so highly of her but i promise, two months shows hardly any layers of a person lol. but also, i think ur mom is wrong for controlling u in that way. its not exactly obsession, its very easy for (especially if ur young) dopamine and hormones to be released bcs youve only just met her and are excited to where it will lead.
so that’s normal dw, im not sure if there’s absolutely any way u can get in contact with her without ur mom finding out but- if not, i suppose it would be healthiest to let go of the attachment u feel to her.