#Emotional attachment and dependacy

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old fog
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I have been isolated for a terrible 2 years of my life due to work, destroying my communication skills (another issue) and causing depression. Went back to my home country for a change and have been to a few dates, problem is even if its a first date, i instantly feel attached to these people and crave love back. Its destroying me emotionally although i understand its not natural. Few online sources said to "slow down" but how can that be done? How can i deal with this? I have friends, hobbies, work, the dates generally dont go too bad, but its the emotional aspect thats bringing me down. Any thoughts or help?

bright light
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Hey man, i’m sorry that nobody has messaged yet, I hope you’re doing great right now.

What’s happening is your brain is craving social interaction and emotional dependency, which is normal for being isolated for that long. Now i should ask, what makes you emotionally attached? Any idea?

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