how do I move on from my girlfriend who committed suicide | The Therapy Center | Page 1

proper crypt Apr 27, 2025, 10:34 PM

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I tried everything but she still did it, she meant the world to me and I don't know what to do without her

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She did it

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About 20 minutes ago

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I hate myself

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I tried comforting her

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I tried stopping her but I failed

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I needed her so badly

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I won't be able to move on

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I dont know what to do anymore

burnt palm Apr 28, 2025, 12:48 AM

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proper crypt I tried everything but she still did it, she meant the world to me and I don't k...

i would recommend speaking to a therapist or someone who can help you out in person. this is something thats really deep and would need some work to process. i know it may seem hard or scary but i do think that this will help you a lot.

proper crypt Apr 28, 2025, 4:00 AM

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burnt palm i would recommend speaking to a therapist or someone who can help you out in per...

the problem is that my parents won't let me go to a therapist or something like that

proper crypt Apr 28, 2025, 5:19 AM

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is there something else that I could do to move on

lunar ginkgo Apr 28, 2025, 5:38 AM

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proper crypt I won't be able to move on

You do not need to move on immediately, you are allowed to sit with the emotions and grieve the loss of her. If anything, it would be good too. Scream, cry, get sad, get angry but always continue moving forward with life the best you can. You are allowed to drag your feet and not move on right away, this is something that will stick with you and not something you can magically get better from. Keep taking care of yourself and crying while you do that, goal for new things to achieve and heal with that grief instead of trying to immediately solve or get rid of it

proper crypt Apr 28, 2025, 5:42 AM

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I still probably won't be able to move on because i might kill myself because of what happened

lunar ginkgo Apr 28, 2025, 5:46 AM

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Well, that would be creating an endless cycle of grief sadly. Others will experience the same feelings you have, and it is fine to not move on immediately. There is zero pressure to move on, just try to move forward while you are feeling all the terrible emotions

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You are free to scream and cry over something like this, you can vent out all your feelings and do anything you need to get them out. They will be overwhelming, they always are

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Just make sure to at least continue living life while you do it, being able to cry and live is a very strong thing to be able to do

proper crypt Apr 28, 2025, 5:51 AM

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I guess the problem for me is I don't like crying

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The more I cry the more I think about her

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if I do that I'll never be able to move on

lunar ginkgo Apr 28, 2025, 5:52 AM

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That’s fine, you don’t have to cry. You can sit in silence and grieve in your own way

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Everybody has different ways of dealing with emotions, as long as you process the emotions and learn to move forward with them

proper crypt Apr 28, 2025, 10:40 AM

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Nevermind ig

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She just faked her suicide

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