#is my relationship real

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oblique beacon
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ive been with my girlfriend for about 5 or 6 months now, and i have never had a real "this is nice" moment. she says shes just "not a touchy person" but i feel like thats just an excuse to give me a cold shoulder. weve never kissed, or even had a mutual hug. i feel like the feeling isnt mutual. she says she loves me but only when i say it first. we hardly ever speak, in person or over text. ive spoken to her about it multiple times but its never changed anything. im too afraid to call it quits. ive never been in a relationship before and im afraid this could be my only one.

uneven musk
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Honestly dude there's plenty of other girls that would give you the affection you need and if she's not giving it to you, you should be the bigger man and just call it quits if she's not giving you the things you want

reef shuttle
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Agreed
They may be girls that can be asexual but no contact at all, it's weird
This is a basic in a couple, not everything, but still

oblique beacon
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all of "those girls" act strange around me

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they dont treat me with respect

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or at least not the kind of respect i know of

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if i asked any other girls out on a date they would probably laugh in my face

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and then post about it on instagram and snapchat

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and why would they want me?

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im a nobody

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i dont go to the gym

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i hardly have a social life

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i dont have much money

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i have nothing a girl would want

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i am the embodiment of a chud incel

uneven musk
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I'm not saying change who you are

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But go out like going to the gym

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Consistently

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Exercise

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Even if it's just an hour walk

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I don't have a social life at all

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I don't have much money

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I still work on myself

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Just do something

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Rather than nothing

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There are people that would want you

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We're all young we have time

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There's no rush

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Being alone is good to find out who you are