#Failed talking stage,don’t know what to do with myself now.

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hybrid basin
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Hello! I am in need of some advice, I really don’t have anyone else to go to, but I had a failed talking stage recently and it was with my best friend of 4 years. We did basically everything together and now im lost and alone, any advice.?

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I also came out of a 2 year relationship about a month ago, and jumped into that. It wasn’t the best idea, but I hate being alone and maybe I just am seeking companionship without the mess..

hallow depot
hybrid basin
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I suppose I just want to find someone who can accept me and my flaws because above everything else im a lover, and when I fall everytime I have I’ve fallen flat on my face for the person, and it always seems to end in some way, this last time wasn’t my fault I begged for him to stay and that I’d do anything to change for him to like me again but all I got was “It’s not you it’s me, I am not good for you”

hallow depot
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So you didn't really cure about what happen in your young ages, right?
It could be your start line to work on that, to learn how to handle your loneliness
I don't think you have to change for someone
You fit to someone or you don't
Maybe he figured that and didn't want to hurt your feelings (you'll never know)

hybrid basin
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Maybe..I just guess I’d gotten so attached that I wanted to do anything I could to preserve it

hallow depot
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We all want that

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You're not alone in this fight

hybrid basin
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I will try to work on handling my loneliness, I just wanna balance it with being around people

hallow depot
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You can do both

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It depends what you like

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As hobby I mean

hybrid basin
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I do like gaming, and crafts, I really enjoy reading and collecting trinkets

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I guess I’ll just miss the physical aspect the most. And the secured future I had

hallow depot
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Make some research of events nearby about that

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You can be surprised

hybrid basin
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I honestly haven’t found someone like who wanted a long term relationship and had the same values as me, I guess I’m still mourning what I could’ve had and how hard it’s gonna be to find again

hybrid basin
hallow depot
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You never know what will happen
Maybe you'll find someone tomorrow that could fit

hallow depot
hybrid basin
hallow depot
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I guess

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You'll be fine

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You'll see

hybrid basin
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Do you play video games hamster

hallow depot
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I do
But I don't make sleep calls

hybrid basin
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NONO

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I wasn’t asking for that 😭😭

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Lawd

hallow depot
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I couldn't resist, it was a good timing

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Don't worry I knew that you didn't mean that

hybrid basin
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Sadge but what games do you play?

hallow depot
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Souls games, Tomb Raider, AC
I'm starting The last of us 2