#Failed talking stage,don’t know what to do with myself now.
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I also came out of a 2 year relationship about a month ago, and jumped into that. It wasn’t the best idea, but I hate being alone and maybe I just am seeking companionship without the mess..
It's complicated to have every pleasures of a relationship without the obligations that come with
Any idea of why you don't like being alone?
I was left alone a lot as a younger kid, and left out of a lot of things once I finally find some kind of companionship or connection I guess I kinda just cling to it because I’ve been struggling to find it for so long
I suppose I just want to find someone who can accept me and my flaws because above everything else im a lover, and when I fall everytime I have I’ve fallen flat on my face for the person, and it always seems to end in some way, this last time wasn’t my fault I begged for him to stay and that I’d do anything to change for him to like me again but all I got was “It’s not you it’s me, I am not good for you”
So you didn't really cure about what happen in your young ages, right?
It could be your start line to work on that, to learn how to handle your loneliness
I don't think you have to change for someone
You fit to someone or you don't
Maybe he figured that and didn't want to hurt your feelings (you'll never know)
Maybe..I just guess I’d gotten so attached that I wanted to do anything I could to preserve it
I will try to work on handling my loneliness, I just wanna balance it with being around people
I do like gaming, and crafts, I really enjoy reading and collecting trinkets
I guess I’ll just miss the physical aspect the most. And the secured future I had
I honestly haven’t found someone like who wanted a long term relationship and had the same values as me, I guess I’m still mourning what I could’ve had and how hard it’s gonna be to find again
I’ve also made some plans with some work friends
You never know what will happen
Maybe you'll find someone tomorrow that could fit
It's a good thing
This may lead you to meet new people
😭 I wish
I’ve made two friends at work, I guess I’ll just heavily miss the sleep calls and gaming and company as stupid as it sounds
I do
But I don't make sleep calls
I couldn't resist, it was a good timing
Don't worry I knew that you didn't mean that
but what games do you play?
Souls games, Tomb Raider, AC
I'm starting The last of us 2
