The way i treat friendships is weird and awfully cold because of my personality and diagnosis of ADHD. one side of me is just the most lovely chaotic and funny person but when someone offends me or does something too repetitive, i kinda act cold and its just a huge habit of mine i cant get rid of. That not really the problem here though. Im currently just a girl turning 14 in 2 months so i never really take things seriously knowing that me and others around my age group are just evolving and going through hormonal stuff but my friends always vent to me and thats totally fine but like i said, when someone does something too repetitive, i just act cold. And so people have come up to me so many times telling me that they wanna kill themselves but the reasoning always seem so stupider than the other. For example: they wanna kill themselves because their sibling didn't go to school while they had to. i dont know if im just the toxic friend that needs to change or im in the right for feeling annoyed and bothered by all the texts.
#Am i a bad friend?
solar drift
formal crescent
The way i treat friendships is weird and awfully cold because of my personality ...
Wait, hold up. You're getting texts from friends threatening to kill themselves over stupid shit like a sibling not going to school?
solar drift
Wait, hold up. You're getting texts from friends threatening to kill themselves ...
exactly, its gotten so overhand man.
formal crescent
exactly, its gotten so overhand man.
Wow, that's not right at all. You're not being a toxic friend for feeling annoyed by that shit. They're just being dramatic attention seekers
solar drift
Wow, that's not right at all. You're not being a toxic friend for feeling annoye...
well that def gets rid of the weight on my shoulder over the whole situation.
formal crescent
well that def gets rid of the weight on my shoulder over the whole situation.
Exactly. You shouldn't have to carry that kind of bullshit on your shoulders. It's not your fault they're being so damn dramatic over nothing.
But how do you usually respond when they say stuff like that?
formal crescent
?
solar drift
But how do you usually respond when they say stuff like that?
i just dont respond and let my other friends talk to them due to the fact that i always seem to say something wrong