hello, just a little insight of my situation i’ve liked this guy for almost 9 months and he says he isn’t ready for a relationship and just would genuinely want to stay friends which is probably for the best since we both aren’t in our ideal headspaces and we just aren’t ready i suppose he definitely isn’t and has made it clear many times, im pretty sad we will prob not be together but he says he will never be with me if i don’t get my life together. which really opened my eyes and made me realize i’m terribly depressed and lack the motivation to want to do anything and it’s hard to just gain it when you don’t feel well so i’m just writing to maybe i don’t even know maybe to just get it off my mind. i don’t expect anyone to reply i think i was just writing this so someone can see my problems i suppose i don’t know.
#realization.
frosty stirrup
winter estuary
You need to understand where you want your life to go. It's crucial for you to take care of yourself and be happy with yourself. If you can't enjoy your own company, how will you share that with someone else?
I understand the desire to be with this person. However, you've got to be someone that could keep them happy too right? How would you accomplish that if you can't make yourself happy
Take small steps. Love yourself before you love someone else