So I’m a trans girl. But ever since I met my boyfriend I don’t feel this strong urge to be feminine around him. Outside of the relationship I still want to be female and seen that way. We have been dating for about 4 months and I brought this up to him about 1 or 2 months ago. For some reason there is this really strong urge in me and need for a male to male relationship with him. The thing is he has OCD and he struggles with things being not consistent. He also thinks that a male to male relationship just isn’t as romantic. He’s not against it or anything he just sees male to female relationships more romantic. So he’s stressed and anxious and just feels off and maybe a bit sad if I ask him to use he/him pronouns for me for a day or something. I wish he would be fully ok and comfortable with me being a guy when I want. But I know that’s not ganna happen right now. How do I get to explore more and have him be comfortable and happy withoutstressing him or both of us being anxious about it
#I may need some help and advice
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I wanna ask him if he could try to maybe be a bit more comfortable with it. I know it won’t be easy but I feel like I really need this