#18+ Prefer about friends Advice if any

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willow pond
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I have a hard time keeping and making friends. Theres something i supposedly do but idk what it is that scares people away. Yesterday i had a argument with an old friend that we linked again, we have history in the past that resulted in us separating for a while. Then the first day that we see eachother for about 5 months, she pins everything that i did in the past on me and wants me to feel guilty about it. I dont need that type of talk because im not mentally stable right now and i told her that. She wants me to have remorse which i did before but she just cant get over it ever. She was my only support system, but turns everything into my fault so thats not a support system anymore. But besides that, everyone that i meet and specifically relationship wise ends badly bc they "arent ready to commit" I need friends that actually care and talk to me when i need someone not people that go against me, right now i currently have no one to go to except for the hotline, which i want to talk to people closer than that, like friends. I need advice, i need someone to talk to, i feel alone and hopeless. Thanks for listening

rustic hemlock
half apex
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Well well well

half apex
subtle sierra
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The chick that you mentioned, just cold turkey and never talk to her again. That’s a kind of person you should never be friends with. Friends are harder to get the older you get because priorities changes In life. Co workers are the best people to have temporary friendships with.

topaz spire
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Hey, if you want someone for some casual conversation, maybe find something of shared interest to chat about. DM me. Happy to be a sounding board or break up the days monotony