#how does someone find friends so easily

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fleet pike
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i recently had to leave school i thought making new online\real friends would be easy, i haven't spoken to anybody but my family in over 4 months, i actually dont know what to do or where to start

minor flint
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Like my best friend ms today
The ones I cherish the most
I met them in normal situations

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Like my best friend I just met him cause we were in the same class together since kindergarten

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And same with my first friend in highschool he was just the second person I met and stuck around with

fleet pike
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i have had friends my entire life due to those kind of things

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but what can i do now

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i dont go to school

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i dont like anyone at my work

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im so lost

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And I lost my job

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I had five
I lost em all

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So I been at home for a while now

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Plus my best friend left the continent

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He's in another continent rn

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I still have one dude who comes over to see me like once a week or twice

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Then I have a friend who lives nearby
So I go to see them often

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But usually I'm just at home
And I just find myself online mostly

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And sometimes it can be fun
If they have time

fleet pike
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i see

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but my situation is a whole lot diffrent

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i unironically have nobody in my life

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my parents arent close to me

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my sibilings arent either

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i have no online or real friends

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like am i doing something wrong

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Not even one?

fleet pike
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i feel afraid to ask people for anything

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and no man its fine

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i just completely guilt tripped you into adding me

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i will figure it out

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thank you

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It wasn't a guilt trip

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I'll help you get more friends
It's not difficult

fleet pike
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i do want to ask

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how should i approach such a thing

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fleet pike
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fleet pike
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thats a scary thing to do though

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so many people listening

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and i sort of meant in real life

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fleet pike
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so what your trying to say is

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because i didnt make friends years ago

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is the reason im going to grow up with no one in my life

minor flint
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I'll give you the raw tips

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If you want to make friends
Go out to unusual but calm placee

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Places

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Or places you wouldn't normally find yourself at

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Be careful tho

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Maybe a beach or something

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Circumstances will help you make friends

fleet pike
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maybe so if that were to work

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im just not a social person either

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i dont look unique

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i dont wear cool clothes

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theres no reason why someone would approach me

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and i dont have anywhere to go

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i live in a boring neighbourhood

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i live the same day over and over

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I swear it

fleet pike
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alright man

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i understand a little bit

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thank you

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for the help

minor flint
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Take my advice and try it out

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Or try this method instead

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Make online friends and try to meet up with them