wow i gotta read all this
#First time dating at 21
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So I have to pack later but I skimmed at this and even if I read it all it's quite a complex situation and you're thrown out a lot of variables I get it it's it's a complex situation so you're trying to get all the variables out there but if you could sum it up to yourself in your head what are your key points what is your goal what is your next step that you can take to progress towards that goal do you want to move out and be independent with him do you want to stay at home and finish school and have a conversation with your parents about how you feel and see if they'll understand or at least try to compromise in some way shape or form find a middle ground I have to be honest if they pay for everything or almost everything and you're still living with them I get it it's kind of their house their rules and that sucks but what sucks worse is having to pay your own bills while in school and while trying to work a job to do so it seems I'm going to assume that you have truly good parents and their intent is coming from a place of genuine Parenthood I don't know how old they are but I'm almost 40 and I have a son slightly younger than you so I get where they're coming from but my approach is more along the lines of I know I'm not going to stop my son from doing what he wants so I'm not going to say you shouldn't do this you shouldn't do that I generally have him tell me everything his drug use all kinds of stuff that most kids wouldn't tell their parents cuz if I'm going to fix stuff when he makes mistakes that he will make even if I give him the advice not to I think we all have experienced something that we needed to learn ourselves even if somebody work for word gave us the lesson beforehand understanding of why
Goal I'm assuming have a little extra freedom
Next step you can take to achieve that goal tell your parents you want to sit down and talk to them when they both can sit down and have a conversation
Sorry I tried to keep it short but that was a lot of variables I had to consider