#I’m genuinely scared of communicating

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brazen vault
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I think this is because of an event where i got into a date with a girl, who is a friend with one of my bros.
I didnt have much dating experience, and also dont understand why the girl even want to go out with me (she is too beautiful and popular for someone introverted like me).
When i went to her fav cafe with her, i just thought of bring sth fun so the both of us could have a good time. I taught her to fold a small turtle. Her communication skills were very good so she keep the flow for very long.
I thought we had a good time since i really enjoyed the date. But when i went home, the bro i mentioned, tell what i did straight in the bois group chat, told me that what i did was ass and everyone mock me. I dont know what to do, i ask him what i should do and he just said some unclear things and just focus on telling me that im wrong.
They even screenshot my chat with her and mock every word i write, im really traumatize at that point cause i dont know what is right. Then i told her that i and her isnt suitable for each other and move on.
But since then i always scared and think so much about what came out of my mouth. Sometimes i felt tired and doesnt even want to talk to anyone.
Is this ok? What should i do?k

proud pumice
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Drop your friends lmao

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Straight up assholes

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And go get the girl back

brazen vault
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I dont have that much friends to be picky 😦

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The girl got a bf right after i reject her

proud pumice
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Those are not your friends

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Mfs are straight up evil lmao

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They ruined something good for you

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You don't want that kind of people in your life

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Ever

brazen vault
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Thanks, i will consider it, but its still a long time ago