I have a girlfriend who can only see how much others need to conform to her ideals. It's totally hypocritical since she doesn't even try half as hard, it really hurts the way she does How she idealizes me, devalues my feelings to the point of calling me weak for getting sick because of health, the way she sees others is totally distorted, but I have a serious problem of always forgiving their mistakes and accepting them, despite all the conversations, I can't find the strength to end it, I feel worn out even before living with being shaped like this.
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Guy like you deserves better women. If you keep being in that toxic relationship it's really bad for your mental and physical health. You have to accept that the relationship is harmful, and she'll never change. If you're afraid of her reaction break up with someone you trust. And remember No "one last chance!" She already crossed the lane many many times, after breaking up with her talk to someone therapist, friends, family remember. Mostly give yourself time to heal, remind yourself why you deserves so much better.