someone tell me am i too sensitive?? i left my old school recently and joined a new supposedly “warm and loving school” but things didn’t turn out so well.. i was having a hard time making friends and im not sure why but always excluded… i see the other new kids who also just joined the school they were doing fine and looked happy but me idk… but soon i met this small friend group at first they seemed really cool and nice but then after a short while they would start to keep clowning me everyday and i thought to myself maybe its just all a joke that this were really just how they talk so i laughed with them but then soon after about 1 month things didn’t change and the clowning got worse.. so i started to feel abit bad i started distancing myself from them and i also tried to talk to them about it telling them i dont like how they treat me and they were overdoing it i tried my best to not sound like some drama king because i didnt want them to look at me differently but they only replied “this is how we treat everyone in the friend group ur just too sensitive” so i just accepted and tried to move on but then things didn’t get better they started clowning me even more every lesson i am with that “friendgroup” i would get insulted and clowned i started feeling unhappy even after a month i observed them they never ever treat anyone else in the friend group the way they treat me… im staring to feel like i dont belong anywhere i cant seem to find a place i fit into… can anyone tell me am i really to sensitive? please be honest i really need someone to talk to
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Honestly that’s not even being sensitive. You first went through denial but then it seemed like they just kept up with that behaviour of humiliating you. That’s straight up bullying. Don’t feel like you are in the wrong. You gave them a chance
thanks man but like do u got any advice on how u could make friends?..... the last time i really trusted someone and had a real proper bestfriend was almost 4 years ago
I’m to sensitive too you can ask your parent or guardian if you can start homeschool that’s what I did or if your school lets you wear headphones blast those
i dont really wanna talk to my parents about this it never ends well.. especially because im afraid of my mom when me and my brother were young she would abuse us to vent her anger and she would tell us to lie if our grandparents ask where these scars come from even though now she is much better and like a proper mom im still afraid to talk to her about many things.. besides i already see a concillor every week
Tell your grand parents or tell you dad?
No you're not sensitive.. people just don't know how to treat people fairly often.. it sucks I know but u might have some other friends to talk to but if u don't I don't deserve that.. No one deserves to be excluded even if it's just "a joke" or "that's how we treat everyone" meaning they treat people by excluding them out? Best wishes from me ❤️ P.s. reply if any updates and sorry if I didn't help much! I'm not really a professional :(
i dont really because like they will just tell my mom anyways
yeah thank you so much and dont doubt urself like everything you say have some value towards me
Awh ty I hope you get the help u need ❤️