I don't know how much longer I can handle my family

[teal adder]

Just as a little note before I start i haven't been checked for and mental problems

So I'll start with how my family treats me and ever since about 4 years ago they have yelled at me for anything and yell at me if my siblings did something as they said "if one of you does something then all of you get punished". In my daily life they have been mad at me for everything

An example would be this story. I just woke up and went down they wanted me to help fold cloths and I was going to but I went up stairs for about 10 seconds to get a pillow as I wanted one to sit on since everything hurts and then my dad yelled at me for it and told me to just stay upstairs and not to come back down and I did I tried telling him why I went to upstairs but he didn't listen. I didn't eat that day. Then he waited a week of not talking to me and finally sat down and talked to me about how I was in the wrong.

That was the first time it had happened a while ago and ever since then I haven't been that close with my dad because he and my mom have just yelled and yelled at me more and more and they expect me to do to much as I'm only a kid. Just so you know I help around the house as my dad has physical problems not the type for wheel chair but I do most physical work.

I have been putting up with it for years as it slowly just chips at my health till last year during my birthday I was hoping for a good day and the day did start going well we went out to watch a movie and after that they had asked if we wanted to go out some more but the problem is my siblings didn't want to go anywhere and I can't really do anything with friends since my birthday is on Chrismas eve and since I really dislike doing things alone so we went home but my mom had exploded and just yelled and yelled and yelled at us even though I wanted to go out somewhere but my siblings just wanted to stay home and play on devices so that was the 2nd time I cried that year as I don't feel that much

It's just really starting to get to me as I try my best to rebuild the relationship with my parents but everytime I do that they just break it again and I still do this today because I forgive them even though they haven't done anything to deserve it.

Just putting this out I'm the type to feel bad over anything so i don't really insult people and I just try to be kind to everyone

After all this time and pain I just don't know what to do

TLDR my family is being a lot and I just don't know how much longer I can handle it with them.

also this is my first time doing something like this so I don't think I did the best job at explaining and i really just needed to vent

[kind snow]

Do you know why your parents are acting out on you?

[teal adder]

they just don't know how to handle children I assume

I am there bio child btw

they don't understand how to like take care of a teenager

[kind snow]

Yea fr

I get scared of gen alpha teenagers so I can understand lol

[teal adder]

I am still teenager

but i look at the teenagers right now and 90% are lost cause lol

at my area atleast

[tepid lynx]

That is abuse. Please call child support or a NGO. Your parents need urgrnt therapy. They are using you as a ventil. Write them in a letter what you feel, everything and then sleepover by a friend for a few nights without telling them where. Then they can think on what they are done. But please get a family therapist help. Maybe school can give you a few addresses. Is there a school counslor?

[teal adder]

I wouldn't have a place to stay where my parents wouldn't know I am at

And maybe I can just suck up with it until I move out

[minor hill]

I'm one of the last gen z teens dude