It seems to feel like both sides of this is wrong, if i "catch feelings" for a person in my life and follow through with those feelings it can and possibly will have a chance to backfire, either hurting one or both of us or ending the friendship or a meriad of other things, but if i dont follow through with that i could be missing out on something special with that person if they feel similarly.
Its a weird subject and feels like theres no winning either way? Any wisdom you could impart on this?
