I (15 m) broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months a week ago. It wasn't the longest relationship but I feel so terrible. She had some mental health problems and when she came to me with them I would get scared and I didn't know what to do, I would tell her that she needed to talk to a therapist about these things, I know it wasn't what I should've done and I feel sick about what I did in her time of need but I had no idea what else to do, this was my first real relationship and I just wish we could try again even though I know she definitely doesn't want to, I barley heard from her since then and it just really hurts, I know I drove her away with how I acted and I take full responsibility for the breakup. When it did happen she said after the first time I reacted like that she felt like she couldn't come to me with her problems and she felt like whenever she did I would get mad or couldn't understand, my heart physically hurts whenever I think of her and I just wish we could try again. She said I was reminding her of her ex and I felt so bad because I had no idea I was doing anything wrong, I'm so sorry for what I've done and I don't know if I should contact her again or not.
#Should I text her?
cedar mango
crimson flume
You shouldn’t contact her. Time will heal your feelings. Sometimes you feel a lot of pressure when people vent to you, which is normal. At the end of the day it comes down to whether or not it’s negatively impacting you. If it is, you should step back and focus on yourself for a bit. 🙂