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daring flame Jan 30, 2025, 5:33 PM

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Another thing that bothers me is that she acts like a completely different person online. She repeats the same jokes over and over and always finds an excuse to leave our conversations. If I mention a friend, she just tells me to call them instead. One time, I told her about a girl who had liked me before I met her, but I never took things further out of respect for my girlfriend. In fact, I stopped talking to all the girls I knew just to make her feel secure in our relationship. Despite that, she still asked me if that other girl was my girlfriend—when she knew that she was my girlfriend. That made me feel weird because she was the one who asked me to be her boyfriend in the first place.

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(I had to post this separately because of the guidelines)

neat flicker Jan 30, 2025, 6:02 PM

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I feel you, my ex left me and would always make me argue because she was "bored"
Later I found out she had taken an interest in her close guy friend (that hurts to say)
The point is she was trying to rush being an adult and get you in trouble, and she was assuming without any cause

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If communicating doesn't work you have to set boundaries or give the ultimatum

daring flame Jan 30, 2025, 6:06 PM

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I tried to talk to her but every time I did she would say "I don't want to talk about this right now" and not respond I tell her to take her time. I don't know what else to do.

neat flicker Jan 30, 2025, 6:10 PM

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You have to tell her that you need to commun

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If she won't cooperate to communicate she's hiding something and doesn't trust you

daring flame Jan 30, 2025, 6:24 PM

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I don't know why she wouldn't trust me I've always did anything she asked without question, looked my best anytime I went to see her even brought her gifts she told me that I was the only one she could talk to but when I went last Sunday she was non stop on her phone texting people.

uneven tree Jan 30, 2025, 7:12 PM

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Look honestly

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you are very mature for a 15 year old

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hands down

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2 things for you

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1st, about her guy friends

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2nd about underage sex

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see, talking 1st about guy friends, if you see any girl with alot guy friends you either make her put boundaries between her guy friends and all, you know what I mean, and if that isn't the case then honestly you don't need to be in an un-needed compitition for her attention because you are well capable to live without it

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2nd thing

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