Just got out of a relationship tried to self ha#m also attempted sui##de the relationship really messed me up and now i’m thinking about getting back into dating after just getting out of a relationship. i feel like i’m pressuring myself to get back into a relationship with someone just to feel loved feels like i’m desperate at this point and i genuinely don’t know what to do because it felt like i was genuinely loved and happy in a while. i just want that same feeling so i feel like im pressuring myself just to be loved and happy i feel horrible and depressed especially with my low self esteem. and i just don’t know what to do because my suici##l thoughts have gotten much worse and i feel like if i dont get back into a relationship or anything i won’t be alive anymore.
#i feel depressed and suicidal.
proud meadow
fossil sleet
I’m really sorry you’re going through this right now, but I’m glad you’re reaching out. It sounds like you’re carrying a heavy emotional burden, and I want you to know that your feelings are valid. At this point, it's important to focus on healing and getting the support you need, whether it's from a counselor, a therapist, or someone who can help you navigate these overwhelming emotions. It can feel tempting to seek a relationship right away to feel loved or to fill a void, but it’s also crucial to give yourself time to heal and understand your worth without depending on another person for validation. Building a strong sense of self-esteem takes time, and you don’t need to rush into anything. Your mental health and well-being are so much more important than any relationship at this moment. Please reach out to someone who can provide you with more support, like a therapist or a helpline. You don’t have to go through this alone, and people genuinely care about your safety and well-being.
proud meadow
i have tried but it feels like there’s no one around to help because when i try to reach out for help it always seems as if no one notices or cares i’ve tired before but no one’s ever offered to help. i’ve tried to work on my self esteem but nothings working it’s like without her i feel pointless. i feel like i have healed i just feel uncomfortable being single now for some reason. and without her or anyone it feels like there’s a part of me just ripped out and i understand i need to work on my mental health but i just feel some sort of emptiness and pain without a gf and i know something she doesn’t yet i’m not sure how to tell her.
fossil sleet
I understand...I just got out of a pretty long relationship myself. But you have to understand two things
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There's always someone there for you. You can reach out to your closest friend, maybe even a cousin or uncle. I promise, there is always someone who wants to hear about whats going on and offer you some good advice.
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You'll be just fine. Listen, we're both the same age. Sure its fun and it makes you feel special to be with a girl- but honestly, and I know this will sound stupid. It's really not that deep. I know you're going through this stuff, but you're special man-you don't need some girl to crush you. So I want you to do three things for me. Remove that display name, and change it to something different. Remove your status. Let me know when you've done those two
Can you do that for me?
@proud meadow
@proud meadow You there?
I love it bro
proud meadow
no not really
fossil sleet
ok so i got two questions
A. Is this your first breakup?
B. Do you have any friends u can talk to?
@proud meadow
fossil sleet
@proud meadow so sorry i had to go im back now tho
listen the only advice i can offer you is, people will always be here for you. Honestly, in this situation, just talk to your parents or a trusted relative. Tell them you want a therapist or counselor. I'm sure your school will have someone that can help you. I wish you the best my friend. And don't ever forget that there will always be someone there that loves you. If you wanna talk a bit more dms please