i feel like i cant move on from my ex, not in a way where i still hoping we get back together but in a way wherever i try and be romantic with someone else it still feels like im cheating even though im NOT its been FOREVER. hes already moved on and i dont blame him its been a year , yet i cant help but feel guilty whenever i try and see someone. for example i liked this girl and we met up and it just all felt wrong. or maybe im just scared to be that close with someone again? and also the fact im questioning my asexuality really isnt helping all of this because i get thoughts sometimes like "what if noone will ever love me bc im difficult" ect ect, has anyone else ever experienced this feeling and how did you overcome it?
#how to move on?
honest terrace
eternal notch
I think maybe this is a sign to invest in yourself just as much as you invested in your relationship. Become a person that you love so much it’s okay if you can’t find anyone atm. Give yourself the time and respect you deserve and the LOVE you deserve and let everything else fall into place. And I promise it will
honest terrace
I think maybe this is a sign to invest in yourself just as much as you invested ...
thank you :)
mild cliff
yeah so this is really common
1y is a long time but it's also not
focus on other things right now
you can get close to people ofc, but, your priorities should be elsewhere
it will take time but you'll get there
however much time it takes. in the meantime, you're not missing out on much, there's so much more to life