Hii, okay so this guy I was texting on instagram identified as full Brazilian but turns out the boy was Japanese living in Brazil. That literally should’ve been my first red flag cause why is he literally lying about his appearance? Btw this stuff literally ALL happened in one single day. So basically this kid started flirting with me and lowkey his true appearance still looked good so I flirted back and he was fun talking too ig. But I’m 15 and he’s 17 so that became an issue. BUT he literally didn’t disclose that he had an issue with it that moment so we kept talking nd flirting. Literally 3 hours later his indecisive ahh decided to say that it was an issue? It lowkey felt like he lured me into a trap to make me feel degraded. I just feel like it was unnecessary to lure me into a one sided relationship without telling me your true feelings. Any thoughts?
#being someone’s second choice
marble pebble
frail berry
Uhh
I guess this depends on the country, but where I live 17 and 15 is not a problem
Since age of consent here is actually 15. Idk where ure from?
As for the asian/brazillian thing I guess its because many girls dont really like asian guys
So he probably says hes brazillian to entice more, instead of saying hes asian lol
dusty umbra
Don’t waste your time and save yourself before they show you more red flags
marble pebble
Don’t waste your time and save yourself before they show you more red flags
okay thank youu
round flume
- if he is a brazillian citizen, he is brazillian
and people are also allowed to change their minds
maybe he realized it after further thought
consent 101, it can be revoked at any time, for any reason, and lack thereof
marble pebble
* if he is a brazillian citizen, he is brazillian
Ohh I didn’t think about that, but he also lied about his looks too?