Like im currently in relationship but it look like I'm the one who puting most effort (But am i too demanding too? Like ill admit i have problem that i maybe to demanding and want attention from him) But i felt bad because He start getting bit distant in text <Its just not the same I'm frustrated>Im tried be the 1 person who text first the 1person to reach out most of the time (this relationship migth be a bad idea? or am i the problem) ps i had relationship before and its like this too its like a cycle! Got any advice on how i can heal
#Confusion and Doubts
wicked nest
digital cloud
Communication is key, so maybe ask how he feels. In my own personal experience, if I felt like I was being too demanding or trying to be too close the problem is twice as bad as thought in the moment and can have really really bad consequences. Also, if he's pulling away, you probably should too, or have a chat about it. Don't try to fill the gap by getting closer because it will only drive someone away. Please take everything I said with a grain of salt though as that's just from my own experience and yours could be entirely different.
wicked nest
Communication is key, so maybe ask how he feels. In my own personal experience, ...
I see... but like he try to text me... And be active. He said i ovt to much wich i do... But he was busy with alot of stuff (But he always late reply )
I ask if im to clingy he said no... But like hes text are bit dry...
I tried communicate how he felt all this am i to overwhelming to him.. He said no but again what if i am?!!
like maybe i ask to vc him to much
And like what if he hates me for being to clingy