#New Years Apology

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foggy birch
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Wait so she was with someone while being with you??

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If that was the case you should reflect on whether or not that’s a good foundation for the relationship you want

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Also since you’re moving schools I think it would be difficult to handle a long distance relationship

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If your feelings are genuine and not cuz it feels nostalgic then I say go for it because you wouldn’t want to regret it later on but make sure this is something you’re willing to invest your time and effort in

pseudo quartz
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if you're apologizing for the sole reason to try getting your relationship back, it's not an apology

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it's a ploy to get her back, masked as an apology

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if you love someone you have to let them go

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if you want to apologize, apologize with the sole intention just the sake of apologizing

pseudo quartz
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<3

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that's great to hear man

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closure

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in general, as long as your intentions are actually pure-- it's always okay and good to apologize

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small tidbit-- i apologized to an ex a year after we split up, for ending things for the wrong reasons and being less good of a partner than i could have been

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i never got a response to that text.
i spoke to her a few years later, and it was the first thing on her mind that she brought up to me, and thanked me for it saying it meant a lot to her