My girlfriend said something and then said she was "joking" right after, but idk how to feel about it. I can't name the feeling, but it's not very awesome. We were talking about something, and she said that she thought it was nice that there really wasn't much of a tmi with us. She could really say anything, and it's not like I'd care. I told her yeah, and that I don't judge, I like it. She said "You can judge all you want bc ik u wont find anyone better than me". I feel silly that I'm letting this bother me, it's not like I want someone else either. Is it that I'm getting the feeling that she tells herself this when it might come to things about me? I don't know, I can't even list how I feel about it.
#Even more confusion.
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sharp ermine
I feel like the only reason you feel bad about what she said is because you believe it.
That's how insecurity works.
If you didn't think it was truthful at all then it wouldn't matter what her intentions were.
If she's being terrible you'd just find someone that treats you right and if she's just joking you'd laugh with her.
Either way you really wouldn't care.