#Am I getting ignored?..

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limber hatch
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So, this may seem a bit dramatic, but I'll say it anyway. For the last 2-4 months, I got back in touch with my 'friend'. She's introduced me to some other ppl, and they seem pretty nice. Well, recently, I feel like I've been getting ignored. We all usually call together, talking about games and stuff, but I've been getting left out. When her other friends join, let's call them R and E, my friend, let's call her G, completely ignores me. Today, we were playing a game, and we were all in call. as usual, I didn't want to talk because they were having a conversation with the three of them. Then, they started talking about making a group with four people. Now, you might say that's good, but it wasn't with me. It was with G, E, R, and another person they met. They often say things like this, so I just ignored it. Later, I hopped off call and now I'm thinking about cutting them off. Though, if I do decide to cut them off, I wouldn't have anyone to talk to/play with, and I think I'm just overacting. Any advice?..

TL:DR-
My three 'friends' keep talking about conversations about them, leaving out of them. I can't cut them off because I don't have anyone else. What should I do, and am I over reacting?

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Also, please ping me when u reply

raven cloak
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let them know that you feel left out of conversations between the four of you

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maybe they don't realize they do this, and they could apologize and try to have conversations that include everyone

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if they're really weird about it though, and don't accept that they do that or don't apologize, then i encourage ending the friendship. friends that ignore you on purpose wouldn't really be friends would they

limber hatch
raven cloak
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oop, they're definitely being mean. yeah i believe ending the friendship is a good idea.

flat fjord
flat fjord
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that's all that matters: your wellbeing

limber hatch
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Ty for the advice