#Help

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pastel olive
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so today i was sick and was not able to go to church and my gf who got baptized today is mad at me for not bring there and now wont talk to me i would have told her i was sick but she keeps blocking me what should i do

cyan epoch
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Hi there, sounds to me like a little time might help (up to a week) and then if you're feeling well enough, see if you can talk to her in person. At the end of the day however if she doesn't want to hear it, there is no point fretting over it. I really hope everything works out for you two. May God bless you both

pastel olive
cyan epoch
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Have you been able to talk to her at all since this happened?

pastel olive
cyan epoch
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Hmm that sounds difficult! You could try sending her a well worded message explaining why you could not be at the event, because as far as i can see you haven't done anything wrong. if you're sick you're sick!

pastel olive
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ya i tried that but she said she would rather me get her and other people sick then me not be there

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and for most of it she would use words to talk to me she would just use thumbs up and down emojis and for the most part has been flipping me off

cyan epoch
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Definitely sounds like emotions are heightened at the moment, maybe try giving her some time and space to settle down

pastel olive
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ya

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what hurts the most she didnt even seem to care about how i was feeling