#Things have been cataclismic

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stray agate
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Honestly the best thing for you would probably be to be upfront about it but in a positive way if you get me, not with self pity/disparagement. People will either be understanding and if they're not then they probably wouldn't be a good friend/partner for you

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Imagine building a serious relationship on having to mask 24/7 around someone for years potentially

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Other than that getting some practice in social settings could probably go a long way. Idk about your location or situation but I know there are some ASD therapy/support groups around me that aim to do that, hel people on the spectrum get some practice in those settings

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Look around I guess

elfin rose
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Honestly I just need to face my fear of driving 20 minutes around crazy drivers and hangout at this barcade in the city once a week.

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I have a friend and we hangout once a month but I never meet new people through them.

stray agate
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Sure that's a great start, or perhaps look around on meetup.com

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Depending on your location there are some cool events in there

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Though they're more common in more urban/metropolitan areas

elfin rose
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The more I am around or talking to people the more I realize it is easy to just hate the way some people are and unfortunately alot of stuff inexcusably makes sense. Ofcoarse I know better and the difference, But we do this to ourselves. And I do not mean ourselves as the ones going through it.

elfin rose
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Crying for the first time in awhile and it feels good to.

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Feels good to just let all this hate I have seen go, I am autistic aswell and it is very hard dealing with all of it trying to be more social.

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I think I will be okay.

stray agate
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Sorry for not noticing this due to the holidays, I take it that you're feeling better/more positive about your outlook?