#mixed signals or am i js insane

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frozen yarrow
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The only way to break that circle is if you do something about it. If you feel like you're chasing a brick wall then perhaps confessing and getting over with it would be the best option. You did say it's one sided so give it a shot, life is all about taking chances and not knowing what's going to come next. If we all knew what was going to happen, it'd be taking the excitement out of life and not allowing us to grow properly.

pallid pilot
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Bruh

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What are you waiting for

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He’s made it clear he’s not gonna make a move but he’s willing to be in contact

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Just tell him how you feel

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What you’re doing right now will lead nowhere

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It’s gonna end up with him getting tired of being available and moving on to someone new

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Honestly it’s not even that he’s waiting for you, he’s probably in the same position as you and trying to gauge if you like him back

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Either be more forward and suggestive about how you feel or straight up confess

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Or do both

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Make subtle advances for a week and if he doesn’t pick up then just tell him

pallid pilot
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He’s a dude

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Speaking as a dude

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Nothing short of “I like you” is going to convince him

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Because that’s what it takes to convince me

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Will you see each other over Christmas break

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And when does your break start

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Damn

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Tough asf LMAO

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Just do it now

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You’ve waited too long ngl

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The fact that he’s stuck around this long is an absolute miracle

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You’re not alone dw

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90% of girls are not forward at all

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And will die waiting for a guy to confess even if he’s literally on the fence and all he needs is a gust of wind to push him over

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He wasn’t getting the hint

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So you need to increase the intensity lmao

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Sending him flowers and note is crazy ngl

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If he didn’t get that then there’s a chance he just doesn’t like you lmao

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But rejection is healthy

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And will give you the most absolute form of closure

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You literally have nothing to lose

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You ask him, he says no, you’re problem is solved

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You ask him, he says yes, your problem is solved and now you’re dating him

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You said he was shy?

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Do it over the phone then, allow him to respond comfortably so he doesn’t say anything impulsive and out of anxiety

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And he’s probably gonna ask his buddies and it seems like they’re rooting for you

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So they’ll give him biased advice in your favor