The only way to break that circle is if you do something about it. If you feel like you're chasing a brick wall then perhaps confessing and getting over with it would be the best option. You did say it's one sided so give it a shot, life is all about taking chances and not knowing what's going to come next. If we all knew what was going to happen, it'd be taking the excitement out of life and not allowing us to grow properly.
#mixed signals or am i js insane
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Bruh
What are you waiting for
He’s made it clear he’s not gonna make a move but he’s willing to be in contact
Just tell him how you feel
What you’re doing right now will lead nowhere
It’s gonna end up with him getting tired of being available and moving on to someone new
Honestly it’s not even that he’s waiting for you, he’s probably in the same position as you and trying to gauge if you like him back
Either be more forward and suggestive about how you feel or straight up confess
Or do both
Make subtle advances for a week and if he doesn’t pick up then just tell him
He’s a dude
Speaking as a dude
Nothing short of “I like you” is going to convince him
Because that’s what it takes to convince me
Will you see each other over Christmas break
And when does your break start
Damn
Tough asf LMAO
Just do it now
You’ve waited too long ngl
The fact that he’s stuck around this long is an absolute miracle
You’re not alone dw
90% of girls are not forward at all
And will die waiting for a guy to confess even if he’s literally on the fence and all he needs is a gust of wind to push him over
He wasn’t getting the hint
So you need to increase the intensity lmao
Sending him flowers and note is crazy ngl
If he didn’t get that then there’s a chance he just doesn’t like you lmao
But rejection is healthy
And will give you the most absolute form of closure
You literally have nothing to lose
You ask him, he says no, you’re problem is solved
You ask him, he says yes, your problem is solved and now you’re dating him
You said he was shy?
Do it over the phone then, allow him to respond comfortably so he doesn’t say anything impulsive and out of anxiety
And he’s probably gonna ask his buddies and it seems like they’re rooting for you
So they’ll give him biased advice in your favor