#Constant Fights: Need Advice

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orchid loom
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What kind of rules, if I may ask

orchid loom
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Doing productive work is good and well, productive, but does it really make you entitled to changing your brothers childish behaviour? He acts like a kid because he is a kid, if you guys agreed on 3 hours each then it's 3 hours each, rules aren't about who does the most productive thing, you'll just seem like his annoying naggy older brother, also so what if what he plays is childish, if it's his time it's his time, maybe you could try finding out what he's into and use it to your advantage instead of trying to make him See it Your way

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I get it's frustrating when he asks immediately when the 3 hours have passed

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Have you tried doing it like he does? Unless you already are, immediately asking for the pc back when His time is over

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The constant fights are because you don't like that he's interrupting your coding for his "childish games" but what he uses the time for does not give you the right to feel entitled to "change him and have him listen" doing that will just make him annoyed at you

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Try having fun with him instead of seeing what he does as a pointless task

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Not everything in life has to be about productivity