#I have a crush on a guy 6 years older than me and I'm not sure what to do.

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late void
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So for around 3 months me (17) and this guy (23) have been online friends and recently we have been getting very close. He is unemployed and I am homeschooled so we end up basically talking 24/7, including regularly falling asleep in calls together. We agree on everything and both me and him are able to communicate any issues we might have with eachother very easily and resolve any problems we have. He is incredibly sweet and I feel like I can tell him anything. I can feel myself getting butterflies when we hang out together and I know that this is me getting a crush. However I'm not sure if he likes me back or if i WANT him to like me back, because I don't know if our age gap is weird and I should be worried. He never does anything to make me uncomfortable in any way, and I'm turning 18 in about 2 months so realistically I could wait to say anything and it would be legal. I'm just not sure how to handle the feelings I have

brave cove
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If yall have good communication and chemistry then go for it. tell him you will be 18 in 2 months guys are pretty simple jus ask him straight up then tell him how you feel

wide obsidian
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I would recommend turning 18 first

brave cove
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i mean yeah but if shes still interested by then 🤷‍♀️

late void
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i just am worried that if im wrong and he just sees me as a friend it'll come off as creepy on my end

brave cove
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how long have yall been talking ?

late void
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we met a little over 3 months ago

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however this last month we have gotten very close

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so we haven't know eachother for that long

brave cove
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i see well i think yall should keep talking until things change

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im a guy ofc and if a lady told me that she liked me i would see if i like her back

late void
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i see

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it is also a little scary for me because I'm bi and ive never really crushed on a man before

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so it feels kinda different

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but I'll keep talking to him ofc

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hes a great friend to me if he likes me or not