#Alaina's vent please help me out

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jaunty brook
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I mean nothing you can do about it. Just distract yourself as much as you can. I’m not good enough for people either. I heard some good advice which is just. Maximize your copes and minimize the pains in your life. Don’t talk to people that can hurt you. Nothing matters and all you need to do is avoid reality while doing the bare minimum. The old you is never coming back. You need to accept that so eventually you can create you that you can tolerate

spark stone
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I just don't know...

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I can't even tolerate this new me..

jaunty brook
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Me either. You’ll one day accept who you are and eventually find peace. You did all you could to help your dog and the people around you. If they hate you so be it. It’s time to rest inside

spark stone
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But I can't...

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I just miss my dog so much...

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It's not easy knowing he's dead...

jaunty brook
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It truly isn’t. You’ll miss them everyday for a while. Then one day you’ll realize you went the whole day without thinking of them

spark stone
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I don't even really care that I'm dead emotionally anymore

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I don't even know what to think at this point

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Not like anyone else is gonna care

jaunty brook
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I mean if your venting you do care inside

spark stone
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I don't know...

steep whale
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dang

spark stone
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Yea

formal fossil
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Distracting yourself from pain that wont go away is some of the worst advice someone can give. If you really want to get rid of it you have to try and face it to find out why you are this way. If you do know why you're always sad, then do something about it. But don't distract yourself from something like that. Talking to someone about whats actually going on or just thinking about what happened and how you can't change the past can help.

spark stone
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Thank you so much...