How can I let her go

[rare timber]

I am 15 and I want to be happy but how can I be happy when the girl I love the most doesn’t even care about me, every time I have to text her first but she’s not answering me because she like me but because she think she have to…
And 1 week ago I found out that she was talking to another guy and I think I should let her go so any advice ?

[storm cipher]

leave her

move on

or you will hurt yourself

[devout ravine]

you truly should let her go

[fast ibex]

its okay to be attached to someone but if she does not care about you or your feelings let her go she is not worth it and i hope your situation gets better

you deserve someone who craves your attention and love

[hybrid scarab]

family

and brawlstars

[rare timber]

Yeah I know but the price of loving someone very much is never loving anyone again

[normal summit]

hey man, really rough situation. i think you deciding to let her go is a noble decision and i am really proud of you for doing that. i get your in the situation of what if i am never loved again? look, you are still young. if you take care of yourself, and are yourself and happy with yourself, people will be attracted to you and may love you again. but this is too much to focus on in the future, and we must focus on whats happening now, and whats happening now is you need to let her go. think of it like this, why love a person when they dont share the same feelings back to you. your wasting your capacity to love and your time on a person who doesnt treat you right.

[rare timber]

But I really love her how and I know I have to let her go but every times I see her face I am like « wow she’s the one » and she’s kind with everyone

[rare timber]

Even if I try to focus on myself they will call me selfish

[normal summit]

who will call you selfish for taking time for yourself?

unless thats something you planted in your mind

[rare timber]

Friend or even parents

If I don’t answer is because I don’t have any battery 😔

[rare timber]

They are always saying I am mature

I am responsible

[normal summit]

thats alright

[rare timber]

But every times I say no or other thing like I am not in the mood they say I am selfish

[normal summit]

are you sure they will call you selfish?

[rare timber]

Alr did

[normal summit]

well have you considered that they are just not mature?

[rare timber]

I don’t know but it’s so frustrating

[normal summit]

your mature because you know when to say no

im actually really proud about that

[rare timber]

I guess…

[rare timber]

Ty

It really help to have someone I can speak with

[normal summit]

yeah man were here for you

[rare timber]

Ty

[normal summit]

dont say i guess

you should be proud because your not letting other people pressure you into doing something your not willing to do

its hard for people to say no because they feel pressured basically to say like i have to do this or i will get rejected

[rare timber]

Yeah but I am drowning in their expectations now 😔

I am never enough for them

Friend

Parents

Family

[normal summit]

do you have expectations for yourself or do you pin your expectations on what they expect from you?

[rare timber]

I try to be a better person each day

But I want to be « enough » for them

[normal summit]

nono

thats the wrong way of approaching this

you need to be enough for yourself man

[normal summit]

this is great

a friend once told me

people should be an accessory to your happiness, not your source of happiness

right now it seems like your deriving who you are from others and not deriving it from who you actually are

[rare timber]

Hmmm I see ty

I will remember I promise

[hybrid scarab]

family and brawlstars remember that

[rare timber]

Yeah Ik

[daring geyser]

wow thomas i feel u