#I need somebody to comfort me

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spark holly
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Me and this girl were dating around 5 month, we actually were very happy, loving, until a toxic gang start to friend her, gossip toxic stuff I never do. Eventually she hate me and whenever we meet she always give a glare or some sort of disgusting reaction. I do not know what did I ever do to those people or along my first lover.
Can anyone give me tip to stop thinking about her or give a hell about her? I been weeping all night just bc of overthinking.

clever hill
hazy inlet
mild temple
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hey man, i think the best think you could really do right now is to grieve. let the sadness of the breakup wash over you and do give the time to cry about it. sounds odd but you can use the opportunity to cry over many things. but once it's out your system, start doing things that make you a new person really. working on yourself will make you happiest.

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never bottle up the emotions because it leads to even more sadness and in my case SI

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what do you mean by this

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hold on i ready thay

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*read

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look

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gonna preface this by saying your still young and therefore you will have alot more dating experience in the future

spark holly
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Nah, half of the class hate ne

mild temple
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are you funny?

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have you figured out why they hate you?

spark holly
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Well

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It start off a girl

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I do not know what did I ever done to her

mild temple
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right

spark holly
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As she start being toxic, spreading fake rumour

mild temple
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mhm

spark holly
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This happen for a few more grade until she move out

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Yes my ex use to friend her

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As they bond friendship

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And when the original toxic move out

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My ex

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Spreading those fake rumour

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Not even letting me explain to newbie who just move in

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And yeah, half of the girl in my class hate me

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They didn't let me explain tho

mild temple
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wow

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sounds like bullying to me

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look, do you still have a solid core of friends

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or not really

spark holly
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I try other class to see if I could try to find a class fit me

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But nah

mild temple
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it's alright

spark holly
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Other girl in other class friend with then

mild temple
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what grade are you in currently id you don't mind me asking

spark holly
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11

mild temple
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Mkay, yeah usually 11 is pretty rough

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things are much better out of high school

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believe me

spark holly
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I'm stuck with a hurtful past ex sitting right in front of me

mild temple
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man yeah I understand that

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could you ask for a seat change?

spark holly
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I tried, the teacher say there no more

mild temple
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it will get better

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right now it sucks

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but you will be ok

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trust me

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your going on break soon

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find things that have a large community around your area

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do charity work

spark holly
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Not even my parent support me

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They told me to kms

mild temple
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I know, but im supporting you

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were supporting you

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if you didn't have friends then hi, im your friend

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you've got this

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your going to let yourself cry

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and then your going to take this 1 second at a time

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take your mind off 1 second at a time

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do you like helping others?

spark holly
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Yeah

mild temple
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Sign yourself up for charity work either in your school or outside

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pick some trash up

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or help feed people

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regain the confidence to LIVE again

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find purpose in serving others

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as in like

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helping others

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not actually being a slave to them

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I hope you get what I mean here lol

spark holly
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I'll try my best

mild temple
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that's all I needed to hear

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try your best

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things are rough but when uni comes your small pond will be inflated 3 fold

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and your confidence and charity will be seen by others

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not whatever rumors people are spreading around yoy

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act and show not say