ok so
basically i have a boyfriend we haven’t met eachother irl but we communicated for 2 years
here’s the problem, he’s been forcing me to do stuff he likes, he just got upset over me not wanting to be apart of a raid, he also does not let me make my own decisions, what should i do gang?
#what can i do
delicate mantle
civic shoal
ok so
basically i have a boyfriend we haven’t met eachother irl but we communica...
Your boyfriend is being toxic to you, he clearly raids you. Slowly he will get violent so its best to try to break up with him and be with other people you trust! C:
delicate mantle
Your boyfriend is being toxic to you, he clearly raids you. Slowly he will get v...
but am nervous he’s gonna start replying threats
like “exposing me”
civic shoal
but am nervous he’s gonna start replying threats
Death threats should be taken seriously.
Examples of a death treat:
Threats about hurting or killing oneself
Threats to run sway from home
Threats to damage or destroy property
If he does one of these examples, try to screenshot or record proof and then you may report it to the police or sue him.
delicate mantle
too young to do that
not those threats im talking about
like he threatened to “expose me for my actions” before
kind fossil
You should just avoid him
He is clearly raiding you, don't stuck in it. Leave it as soon as possible
Don't be threaten. Just make a new start. Leave all things him him behind
orchid turret
Just stay away from him Giving execuses Like "Sorry but I cant play right now"or"Sorry but the wifi isnt working properly But we can play later"
if these keeps on Break up with him Because these will just get worse and worse
civic shoal
ok so
basically i have a boyfriend we haven’t met eachother irl but we communica...
2 years isn't a small thing, if you've been with him till now that means he isn't that bad, i guess he's having some issues, or maybe yk he wants dominance, maybe try to talk to him about this. (i'm in an relationship for lke 2.5 years and i've also not met him. so i can relate)
orchid turret
What can he treathen you with that you are so scared
civic shoal
how he '' force'' you?
delicate mantle
He threatens to “expose me” even though I don’t remember my actions
civic shoal
expose your pictures?
delicate mantle
He just kinda keeps me to him I can’t leave
orchid turret
He threatens to “expose me” even though I don’t remember my actions
what is he gona expose you on
on social media?
orchid turret
Does he have conections with your parents
civic shoal
He just kinda keeps me to him I can’t leave
if that's on a decent level, then its fine, all guys do that, but ig not in your case huhh:?
orchid turret
Can I have his discord user
civic shoal
Can I have his discord user
no dont
civic shoal
Can I have his discord user
he'll be really mad about that she's talking about it to others, more danger
delicate mantle
parents say I can’t leak it, for safety reasons
orchid turret
k its your choice not mine
civic shoal
k its your choice not mine
its for her betterment
orchid turret
Alright but
if it is social relation ship it wont be that bad of a consequence of breaking up
Can you give exact information of what he is Exactly treathning you with
civic shoal
listen i once talked to some guy on dc about my relationship issues, and my bf was really heartbroken.
civic shoal
he’s gonna be extremely hostile
why do you think that?
orchid turret
if it doesnt stop now he will make you send some "inapropriate stuff"
delicate mantle
why do you think that?
It has happened before
delicate mantle
if it doesnt stop now he will make you send some "inapropriate stuff"
well that’s not the case, he’s gonna say “ILL EXPOSE YOUR ACTIONS OF WHAT YOU DID TO ME” or something
though I don’t even remember my actions
orchid turret
does he have thing he can expose you with
delicate mantle
YouTube
civic shoal
girl what you even did?, and even if he did its not gonna end your life.
delicate mantle
no he only has 619 subs or something
orchid turret
so what
civic shoal
then how mann?
civic shoal
yupess
civic shoal
you both can expose each other??
delicate mantle
you won’t comment or like on his channel?
delicate mantle
ok just only view him ok
civic shoal
i just dont get it how are you even in this relationship
orchid turret
you won’t comment or like on his channel?
I promice I wont
delicate mantle
He just randomly confessed and that’s how we are in relationship
but
you know what
civic shoal
you never liked him?
delicate mantle
He apologizes for his actions sometimes
orchid turret
Yo ushould just end it
delicate mantle
a little bit but I have attachment issues
orchid turret
if I where you
civic shoal
exactly, do you care about him exposing you?
orchid turret
I would break up with him and see waht he does besides its not Like you are famous so who is he goan expose you too
delicate mantle
yes idk what I have done most of the times
civic shoal
the only issue would be if he has your those "pictures" with your face, otherwise no worries
orchid turret
why would you care about 600 people knwoing you broke up with him
also
You can make your own youtube tag him and tell everyhting he does to you on youtube
you can expose him too
delicate mantle
I do have a main channel
civic shoal
subs?
delicate mantle
but I would need a alternate channel to expose him
orchid turret
just creat it then
civic shoal
alr alr
civic shoal
maybe cry in a video
civic shoal
exactlyyyy
orchid turret
why would you carea teh way other poeple look at oyu
delicate mantle
idk I don’t think a whole lot sometimes
delicate mantle
thank you guys for the advice
delicate mantle
I appreciate it
orchid turret
Since you are in a relation ship
civic shoal
its okayy, girls helping girls ❤️
delicate mantle
yarrr
civic shoal
🫀
orchid turret
I have a question
delicate mantle
mk
orchid turret
I am asking you these because you are experienced in a relation shi for 2 years
orchid turret
mk
any of yall
Alright so Basicaly I am at school and there is these girl I have a crush on,and the time I was thinking about confessing to her but then there is these guy and she Likes him How I found out was when I was with the guy she Liked lets call him "joe" alright so when I was talking to some girls with joe the girl I had a crush on Came up to him happily and hit up a conversation(From the way she was talking to him you can tell that she Liked him)and then its like a world getting shattered every girl you like loves joe and she doesn't talk to me she avoids me and all that but sometimes when she is taking books to class she says ok and takes the books for me She did have a crush on me like 2 or 3 years ago for 2 or 3 years her friend is the one who told me because I was crushing on someome else at that time Should I ask her out am confused
delicate mantle
uh
orchid turret
if its too much ok
delicate mantle
I’m not a real great therapist
orchid turret
np
civic shoal
i'm
orchid turret
neither am I
civic shoal
first of all, nobody get over that big of a crush, and the girls talk more nicely to guys who she thinks is like a bro to her.
and shoot your shot before things get late, what will happen? the worst she can is reject.
orchid turret
But I am rude to her most of the time 😢😢😢
civic shoal
thats loveeeee
civic shoal
do you do it playfully?
orchid turret
no
civic shoal
or really mean?
orchid turret
with a serious face
civic shoal
you're adding more and more drama here..
orchid turret
its these time Like few months I developed a crush on her
actualy
Forget it
Itll never happen
thank you for your time
civic shoal
hey, trust yourself
orchid turret
you are the one being wanted since you are a girl and I dont think she is into brown but a little black sin cooour guys
colour*
civic shoal
if she had a crush on your for 2-3 years, nobody can snatch that feelings of hers from her. It doesn't matter how many joes come, remember it's always the first love. Nobody really get over their first.
orchid turret
if she had a crush on your for 2-3 years, nobody can snatch that feelings of her...
no like when I say that
she is very competing with her bsf
civic shoal
you are the one being wanted since you are a girl and I dont think she is into b...
idk about them but i as a girl, love brown color, nobody's like those whitish (chikna in my language)
civic shoal
she is very competing with her bsf
means?
orchid turret
and her bsf is popular girl and am also Like a brother to her bsf and her bsf who is popular girl Likes joe sooooo she likes joe very much
orchid turret
I dont have a girl
civic shoal
i mean girl you have a crush on.
orchid turret
She hates him
But also Like she hates me too yk am sayin
I was so rude to her
and she doesnt even like me speaking to her
I even used to spread rumors about her saying she eats her nose waste
civic shoal
listen i dont want you to move on and later on find out that, she liked for that time period, you'll regret.
just shoot your shot
chee
you're jerk
orchid turret
But her friend told me that she said she is not ready for a relation ship
and her mom is very strict
she even beat her up for me texting her
civic shoal
listen, i was in 10th grade when my bf proposed and said i'm not ready for a relationship and he waited for me. Till i finally felt mature enough, so just wait for her naa
civic shoal
just confess and comfort her by saying that you can wait for her.
orchid turret
before that
1 more cruel info
These one time I offered her notes bc she didnt finish writing hers and I was ahead of her and she went crying to her bsf saying he is offering me his notes these is weird
civic shoal
crying?
orchid turret
yeah
civic shoal
like in a sad way or happy way?
orchid turret
very sad
orchid turret
thats what I tought too
civic shoal
maybe she was happy
orchid turret
....
civic shoal
maybe she felt good or smthg
orchid turret
Lets forget abt these
civic shoal
yupes
orchid turret
Ill conffes after thinking abt it
civic shoal
yeahh you can dm if you wanna know how and when to in future..
orchid turret
Alright ty
civic shoal
bye