Yo chat, does anyone know how do i win back my ex on our 3rd break up, he said he isn’t in love with me anymore but still does care, i still want to be with him because i believe in our connection and that our feelings can be sparked again. There weren’t any cheating or abuse in our relationship but more of small issues on understanding each other needs. I am in college early (16 f.) and my partner is in high school (17 m.) I really love the man and i have been dealing with my mental health in order to properly love him and support him. He said that he doesn’t want to go back again because we used to have so much problem and that he wants to be free, both of us have bad time management and he have bad management in communication when something goes wrong.
#WIN my ex again
sinful mulch
final elm
I wish I could help but @keen star can
thorny furnace
Hi, im really sorry to hear that you've been broken up with recently. It's really difficult but the only thing you could really do here it seems is to give him the breakup. Showing him that you are able to accept his decision tells him that your going to move on honorably. He has fallen out of love with you and in his mind there isn't anything you could do to win him back, which had been evident since you guys have been on and off 3x. Use the time in college (cause I know you will have plenty of free time) to start healing for yourself.
It's time to find your interests and your hobbies as your forming who you are in your teens and as you advance in college. Your not closing the door on him, but instead think of it as your moving forward but keeping the door a little open for him.
Hoping this advice helps a little, rooting for you!
keen star
Yo chat, does anyone know how do i win back my ex on our 3rd break up, he said h...
People think love is something constant. No, love is like building a wall. Sometimes the wall cracks and breaks but through teamwork it can be rebuilt.
Don't rush him, it takes a while to rebuild trust. Most people just need someone to support them and not make life difficult.
It's wise that during this break you continue working on your mental health. Learn mindfulness and be aware of how words can hurt someone.
sinful mulch
People think love is something constant. No, love is like building a wall. Somet...
I really do want to make him believe we can rebuild the spark
He said it doesn’t feel the same when we reconnect I told him that it’s because we didn’t have any issues and that when we fight that’s the only reason why it sparks us up
keen star
He just blocked me today
Give him time. It takes a while for boys to miss someone. Eventually he will start thinking about you again.
Now you cannot wait for that to happen. You need to rebuild yourself and find ways to keep busy.
sinful mulch
Give him time. It takes a while for boys to miss someone. Eventually he will sta...
How long will it take at least?
keen star
How long will it take at least?
It's the same as grieving the loss of a loved one. It can take anything between 6 months to a year depending on how close the person is to you.
sinful mulch
It's the same as grieving the loss of a loved one. It can take anything between ...
I was the one who would also cherish him in anything too 😔
keen star
I was the one who would also cherish him in anything too 😔
It's hard mate especially if he is your first love but you cannot beg him to fall in love with you.
You need to persevere your self respect. I'm treating you as I would a guy and say, "there are plenty of fish in the sea." Don't give up on love ❤️