My gf dumped me, and blocked me, now I dont know what to do | The Therapy Center | Page 1

rigid crane Oct 30, 2024, 2:59 AM

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Is it really worth your time to try getting back to her in your opinion?

rigid crane Oct 30, 2024, 3:16 AM

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The reason can be very random or shocking

rigid crane Oct 30, 2024, 3:52 AM

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Friends that you actually find enjoyable get rid of the emotional burden of loss btw

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 2:19 AM

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man this actually sucks. Just seems like she lost interest and dont want to see you hurting infront of her.

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 2:37 AM

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thats actually really rough and im really sorry she actually feels that way about you

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and it sounds like really hard but you need to respect yourself and say

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im not going to obsess over a person who doesnt respect me for who i am and im going to work hard to find myself a person who respects my presence and time

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cut the contact even if she unblocks you, and maybe even unfriend and remove her mutuals if you have to

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this is gonna be about you now

honest current Oct 31, 2024, 3:21 AM

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i get it being hard to leave when the break isn't mutual
when a heart breaks it dont break even

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but like

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this sounds bad and i also get like

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feeling bad about losing feelings

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but in time you will come to see that she wronged you and (like i said this sounds bad) you may even come to hate her

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and that ime/imo will make things better

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well that's the first step at least so thats good that youve got that down

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most people get stuck on the idea of the person they loved

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expectations are what hurt the most

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:31 AM

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hey amn

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sometimes we need to realize that for us to move on

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i realized my partner wasnt good to me so it was good they left me before i overworked myself even more

honest current Oct 31, 2024, 3:35 AM

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i've had one like your situation before kinda
wasn't reciprocated
i did not understand relationships as much at the time which led to me getting hurt bad
met a girl, we expressed interest in eachother, talked for a bit, had already known eachother for probably a year at that point, i got feelings, tell my friend (hadn't talked to him in months) about her, just so happens that she'd been dating him for twice the amount of time that i'd been talking to her, i confront her and she blocks both of us/speaks poorly of me to other mutual friends basically calling it one sided

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took me a few months (2) to get over it but in hindsight i know i didn't really do anything wrong

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:37 AM

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^^

honest current Oct 31, 2024, 3:38 AM

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idk if my recovery was the best because i got over it by cutting off all but 4 friends and just taking time to go to the gym and scream at call of duty but yknow

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and then i ended up having worse women that kinda eclipsed that one lmao

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 7:13 AM

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well have you blocked her?

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sounds petty but you need to do this for you so you can heal again

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:02 PM

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I wouldnt even wanna talk to her after what she called you

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im just being real

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like you shouldn't accept this as a romantic interest

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she doesn't even enjoy talking to you

hot falcon Oct 31, 2024, 3:13 PM

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if i were you i would do the hardest thing and just block her. its gonna hurt and your gonna think about it a lot but it gets better you can can also text friends which can help take your mind off it

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:28 PM

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Not i guess homie

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Get her out of your life

hot falcon Oct 31, 2024, 3:28 PM

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its a you should

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banned

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:29 PM

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ik you feel a guilt but you didn't ask for her to unblock you

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let her go

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learn from this

hot falcon Oct 31, 2024, 3:29 PM

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you got this

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we both are backing you on this

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also so off topic but your status from you two im dying

jolly storm Oct 31, 2024, 3:30 PM

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seek therapy if you must, you need to acknowledge that toxic people that don't respect you don't belong in your life

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yeah man

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do you agree you have a right to be happy

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Never, that's actually very mature of you

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just make sure you know your choosing to be strong and to forget her

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if you do then you need to take these steps

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that's fine, ignore her

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like

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she treated you like an annoyance, at least treat her as a stranger

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dont swoop her to the level she put you at

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and if you do interact with her, let her engage with the convo, and be polite and respectful with your response

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good

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no problem man

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here on this earth together

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*were

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gotta help one another

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show the world the kindness you think you deserve yknow

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well it just depends on thier enviroment

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¯_(ツ)_/¯

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I'm young and she's young and idk how young you are but eventually we realize that popularity doesn't exist in college

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I did

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still doesn't give her the excuse to treat you like scum

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yeah bro

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theres resources and hotlines you can call if you live in the us/Canada where you can talk to counseling or relationship experts about your problem and ask for advice or seek guidance

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I can provide them if you want

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