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scarlet dome
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First become friends with him. Ask him questions about his day. Find out his likes and dislikes. Naturally you will know the right time to ask him out for coffee. Then you can tell him in person. 🙏

scarlet dome
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I'm guessing Yuh means yes, so that's Halloween out of the question. Ask him if he wants to go out on the weekend.

rough terrace
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are you guys already friends or?

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oh sorry whoops

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i feel like not small talk but just conversations that engage with both of you would create some form of a bond

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itd be hard to start them but trying can be good

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you don’t need to go outisde with them per-say because it might be too early right now

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Ooooh I see

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No don’t worry I understand that paranoia

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In my opinion the best thing to do would be to probably just create some bond and he probably won’t cut you off if that’s the case

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You don’t need to rush it because it might just not be effective

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Do you know what he likes or?

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Aiiigh ok

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Alr

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Well try see if you two have anyt in common, or maybe like differing opinions ( not serious ones that cause a bad argument tho 😭) I mean there’s never a 100% guarantee but it’s just worth a shot

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Differing opinions usually works cause it always engages them to talk more about there’s

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They kinda have to care abt it tho

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Oh

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Oh damn

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Have u guys sorted out those arguments or?

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Sorting out the argument could be a good conversation starter im ngl

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might be more comfortable after that

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and you can segway it into smth else yk?

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idk what the argument was about but if hes still talking to you I’m sure he’s willing to

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i respect you like this boy but damn that does not sound like a nice guy 😞

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but anyways

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okay i guess that stuff will come naturally fi you dont want to bring it up

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may I ask what was the last convo you had with him?

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over textt

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idk maybe theres a way you can carry the convo

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i believe frfr

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This guy

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didnt he say he doenst like hanging out with people or?

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bro

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this could be a good opportunity ngl

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I mean i guess you coukd say its ok if he isnt good at texting and you still want to talk to him?

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its ok to want to talk to someone after all

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damn he is a distant guy

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Atp why not just ask him “do you mind if i talk to you or not?” Or sometjing along those lines

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Persistence can be good but onky if the person actually desires it

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pardon me what does game pigeon mean

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😭