#how do i stop being angry

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delicate escarp
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what type are you to get angry?

-you play it cool a couple times and suddenly get mad

-you show passive signs of anger and lash out

-you get mad the moment they say it

-you get frustrated easily

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as in you encounter a problem and just panic?

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or as in getting frustrated at pressure

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Try to take a breather every once in a while. take a brisk walk, step out of the room for a moment when you feel under pressure, or just try to calm yourself down and close your eyes for a second.

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There also may be other things leading you to being frustrated, do you mind telling examples of when you get frustrated?

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(off topic) but nice to see you're in Belugang

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ohhh ok

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so per say you're in a situation where you have a group project, and someone is just stubborn with their opinion, even though you've explained to them a million times, what action of anger do you have, or do you just feel anger?

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honestly I dont blame you

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it's extremely unfair

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people might say "the world's just unfair, live with it"

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but often times it comes off in the wrong way.

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This can happen a million times. And at some point, some people just accept it

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It's hard to

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Dw i wont

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My sister often gets mad at me

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from video games

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like fighting games

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I attack lots of people\

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sometimes including her

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and she does too

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but when I attack her more frequently than she does

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she gets mad at me

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like furious

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threatening me that she'll stop me from playing

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or just closing the device

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It's annoying

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as HELL

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for her

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and it's ok to feel angry

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It's normal

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frustration is a normal thing in life

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TLDR: the point is, it's easy to get frustrated and mad at irritating times

languid trench
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Yeah

delicate escarp
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which "irritating" is what describes the trigger point

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the only thing that matters is how you handle it

languid trench
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Yeah and that it doesnt hurt anybody

delicate escarp
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only then does it become an issue

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but if you bottle up too much anger at the same time,

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it isn't healthy

languid trench
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Good luck with your stuff tho Yara

delicate escarp
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sry if this is too long honestly

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i often stray a bit off topic

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might not be too helpful either

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but you can let out your anger

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it isnt wrong

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haha thx

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i gtg study now

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hope you do better :D